Aldrich Adventures

Three Months

2010-06-15T21:37:00.000-05:00

Three months ago today the Aldrich family began a new adventure.

The majority of our possessions went to live in a storage unit. Garth packed up a few of his things and headed to "the sandbox". The boys and I gathered what was left and transitioned to Texas.

I thought that by now I would have some grand words of wisdom to share, but I have none.

NONE!!!

We miss Garth. The boys miss their daddy, and I miss my husband and dear friend.

The wound is not nearly as fresh and raw, but the pain of him being gone seems to grow as time goes on. We will continue counting down the days, thankful to be another day closer to being a family again. To those who have prayed for us, we sincerely thank you.

From Howlin' to Growlin'

2010-05-29T14:17:00.000-05:00

He did it!!

Dylan has completed 2nd grade and has been promoted to the 3rd grade. We are so proud of his accomplishment. It didn't come easy though. He had a tremendous amount of change to deal with during this second grade year. Dylan began as a Timberwolf at Abby Reinke Elementary School in Temecula, CA and finished up a Wampus Cat at Itasca Elementary School in Itasca, TX. The transition was a difficult one, but he managed to work through it and completed his task.

Dylan - Way to go, buddy!! You dad and I are very proud of you and we can't believe you are a 3rd grader now. You are growing up so fast on us. You are a sweet, good kid. You will be friends with anyone who will give you the time. You work hard at school and desire to understand and do well. You are well behaved for you teachers and a good example for you peers. Keep up the good work!! Now go enjoy your summer and have some FUN!! We love you, Mom and Dad

Here is a quick re-cap of Dylan's 2nd grade year through pictures:

First day of 2nd grade

Recognized with the "Action" Award w/ Mr. Stansbury

Traditions Day

Going Away Party

Last day at Abby Reinke

Friday Flag

Field Trip

Field Day - Sack Race

Field Day - Tug -of- War

Mrs. Volcik

Dylan's 2nd Grade Field Trip

2010-05-16T22:51:00.000-05:00

Dylan is now an Itasca Wampus Cat!! I transferred into Itasca during the 2nd grade and now Dylan has followed suit. The only difference is that I came in mid-October and he made the big move in April - all that is left to do is field trips, field day, and fun.

This year the 2nd graders headed to Dinosaur World in Glen Rose, TX. If I never go back it will be too soon, but the kids sure seemed to enjoy it.

Digging for fossils with his buddy and bro

Eaten by a dino

One of Dylan's faves

Jaydon eaten by the dino

Missing Daddy

2010-05-07T16:27:00.001-05:00

With almost two months "under our belts" the following conversation just about sums up how we all feel:

Jaydon: I miss daddy.

Me: I do too.

Jaydon: He loves me??

Me: Of course, Daddy loves you very much.

Despite missing Daddy we are keeping ourselves busy. The boys enjoy their WHEELS.

The Send Off

2010-03-16T00:10:00.000-05:00

Well, we did it. We got this nasty, dreaded day behind us. We are both so thankful to be counting down to Garth's return home now.

I'm sitting here in bed with red, swollen eyes. I would love to go to sleep, but I am hoping for one last phone call from Garth. So I figured I might as well recount the day a bit for memory sake.

Yesterday was emotionally rough. We went to church, but were both ready to be home so we could relax in our own emotions. We tried to make it a good day, but were both just too sad. Garth said his goodbyes to the family over the phone and computer. He threw the football and a played a heated "memory" game with Dylan and played Star Wars with Jaydon. We were basically glad when the day was done. Thankfully the Lord blessed us with a night of rest.

This morning, we woke up like any morning. Jaydon made his way into our bedroom and I listened to Garth chat with the boys. It was so sweet to hear them interacting together, yet so sad to know this was the last morning for awhile.

We took some last minute pictures and did our best to pray as a family. Garth told Dylan goodbye and it was hard to watch. These two have a very special and close relationship. They hugged each other tight and cried on each other's shoulders. They ended with high fives and I took Dylan to school. Jaydon and I went with him down to the base. It was a tormenting ride. Many, many tears. It finally came time for us to say goodbye. He loved on Jaydon who doesn't fully understand what's going on. Finally it was my turn. As difficult as it was, we did it. I didn't want to let him go, but I did.

We said the last "I love you"s and gave the last hugs and I got in the truck and left. I still can't believe I left him there.

The feelings are still very raw. He as called a few times and I fight back tears everytime I hear his voice. I am crying as I type, but I know it will get easier as everyday passes. We will miss him so, so much, but we are very proud of him.

Many people sent words of love and encouragement and we thank you all for your sweet thoughts and prayers for our family.

"Memory" Star Wars Style

Boys being GOOFY!

My boys

A proud Dylan with his Daddy

A sad Lynita with her handsome Hubby

Jaydon with his Daddy

A tough goodbye

Getting the gear out of the truck

Goodbye sweet boy!!

Counting the Hours

2010-03-13T23:30:00.000-06:00

It is getting late on this Saturday night.

Sunday is quickly approaching - even faster with the time change.

Thankfully we get to spend Sunday together as a family. We are planning to go to church. I find that only fitting and honoring to the Lord.

Lots and lots of emotions running through us all.

I am so ready for this "knot" in the pit of my stomach to disappear. I feel like I am on the edge of a serious breakdown at any moment, but am fighting it back with all that is in me. Sadly, there is nothing to prepare you for a "good-bye" of this nature. So many unknowns.

That is all I have for now.

Just Keepin' it REAL

2010-03-03T18:11:00.000-06:00

What is a "blog" good for if I doesn't show the true colors of someone and the life they lead.

Well the following story is sadly very true....

Once upon a time, on Tuesday, March 2, 2010 to be exact, the day started like any other day. Garth headed for work and the boys and I got ready to head to school. Jaydon and I got Dylan delivered to school for his day. We headed to the grocery store to get a couple of things and then returned home. I worked out on my bike and Jaydon played with his toys and I'm sure squeezed in some Lego Star Wars action too. We had lunch and then enjoyed a regular afternoon at home. I could tell that Jaydon was getting a bit tired because he would curl up on the couch with his blanket.

Are you still with me. Hang in there. You will be so glad you did.

There was no time for a nap because it was time to go get big brother. We arrived at school and all seemed normal. While waiting around Dylan's class for the bell to ring, Jaydon began running to this grassy area on the backside of the school. I said "hey" to Dylan and went to round up Jaydon. I told him it was time to go, but he informed me that he was waiting for a friend. I explained that this friend was not here today and we needed to go to the car. A couple of exchanges back and forth and he began to cry. He told me he couldn't go to the car because he was crying. I sat down with him for a couple of minutes explaining that he needed to stop crying and walk to the car. He still didn't want to walk, so Dylan and I acted like we were walking away. Jaydon didn't like us leaving but was still not budging and still crying LOUDLY, I might add.

Okay, so this is where it gets fun. I gave him one more opportunity to walk by himself. He opted not. So, I picked him up like a sack of potatoes with my one good arm. Well, he began kicking, screaming, and crying. I had to walk holding this crazy child from the back side of the school all the way to my car. We passed many children and parents and teachers. I just had to keep walking. We finally made it to the crosswalk and I held his hand and basically dragged him across the street. By this time, I am not only a crazy mom with an out of control child, I am a crying mom. Somehow, I got him in the car, threw him in his carseat and got him buckled up. We drove home and he is still at it. Into the house and he is still at it. I pull his pants down and spank and spank and spank his little bottom all the while trying not to loose total control. Up to his room he goes. I have to hold the door closed and am amazed at his strength. By this time I am just praying. I don't know what else to do. I explain that he must calm down to come out. He does a bit and I open the door. I have him sit and explain how hurt, sad, embarrassed I am. I have him tell me he is sorry, which he does only because he has to. I then make him say "I will obey you mommy." Well, not so much. I have to shut him in his room again. Finally he gives in and says it. I head downstairs and he continues to yell at me to come back up. I don't go back up and he finally makes his way down. A few minutes more and he grabs his blanket and heads for the couch. Next thing I know is that he is ASLEEP.

This is a text I sent to Garth during the ordeal:

I had to carry your son from the backside of school property kicking and screaming to the car. I was embarrassed and in tears. Shoved in the carseat and at home. Many spankings, locked in his room and still at it after over 30 min. Please pray for us. Seriously!!!

That was how the Aldrich crew spent their afternoon. I was emotionally and physically exhausted afterward and still feeling it today. I felt so embarrassed and defeated.

However, there are some people who made the worst moments a tiny bit less horrible.

First, at school a good friend who had witnessed the entire ordeal tried to be as encouraging as possible. "We've all been there. All kids have their meltdowns. What can I do to help?" Thanks Melissa.

Then as Jaydon was winding down from the fit, Garth called and let me cry and explain. We talked through it and I'm thankful I don't have to parent totally alone. Thanks so much honey.

Finally, not two minutes after the fun, my phone rang. I almost didn't answer it because I was still winding down, but I really wanted to visit with this friend. I answered and heard her voice. I tried to keep things together, but when she asked about my day - well, you know the rest. Sadly she got to hear my baggage, but still loved me through it. Thanks for listening Heidi.

Thanks to my hubby and friends for loving me and not judging me while I was

THAT MOM WITH THAT KID.

I felt the need to share this story because I never want another mom to feel like I did. I felt like I was the only mom in the world to ever experience such nastiness. I felt that every parent was watching and judging. I desire others to know you aren't alone and someone has gone through the same things with their own children. And if they haven't, they probably will.

Well, I could use a break from this whole parenting thing, but that won't happen for many, many more years. So, I will just continue on and try to do better next time.

Hope your day was better than mine!!!

This Month

2010-03-01T23:35:00.000-06:00

March is here!!

Now the talk around the Aldrich house is -

"This month...." or "In a couple of weeks....".

The big sendoff is quickly approaching.

We will miss these precious moments.

But will look forward to sharing them again soon.

Drag Races

2010-03-01T14:17:00.000-06:00

The fun continues...

After we returned from our trip up the coast, my family arrived in town for a few days. The highlight of the weekend for the "big" boys was getting to go to the drag races.

Now, to most this is not a big deal. But for the LLOYD family this is "cool" stuff. The Winter Nationals are held in Pomona, California in February every year. This year was the 50th Anniversary of the race. So after Dylan's football game the guys - Garth, Dylan, Dad and Blake - headed up to the races.

I think they all had a great day.

Dad got to share his love for the cars and the sport with his grandson and sons-in-law and the boys found a new interest. The only downer was the the cars were SOOOO loud that Dylan didn't handle it too well, but Garth got him doubled up on ear protection and all was better. It was so cute when they arrived home that evening. They were all talking the races up and who won and wanted to find it on ESPN so that we could all watch it again. Here are some pictures from their special day:

As a wife, mom, daughter, and sis-in-law to these special guys, it meant a lot to me that the guys enjoyed this day and it will always be a special memory for them. I know they wish all the other LLOYD guys could have been there too!!!

Central Coast

2010-02-18T20:57:00.000-06:00

We left Sunday the 7th to take a short trip up the Central Coast. We left here with an ultimate destination of Monterey, California. We started our way up around Malibu. We stopped for lunch in Santa Barbara. We loved this little place. It would be fun to revisit and explore some more sometime. From there we departed from the Hwy. 1 coastline and made our way to Slovang. It is a cute town full of windmills and danishes. The town was cute, but the best part was the beautiful drive to get there. Our drive then took us back toward Hwy. 1. The coastline is breathtaking. We stopped for the night in Grover Beach. The next morning we drove up Hwy. 1 to Monterey. Along the way we stopped in Morro Bay and at Hearst Castle. We also enjoyed a beautiful drive through Big Sur. We stayed at the Navy Lodge in Monterey. The next day we enjoyed a delicious breakfast and then off to the Monterey Bay Aquarium. The 17 Mile Drive was closed due to a golf tournament, so we ventured off the beaten path to a state park. We are so glad we did. It was absolutely wonderful. The next morning we headed home. Enjoy the slideshow!!

Make a Smilebox slideshow

Boys' Day Out

2010-02-18T20:11:00.000-06:00

So much to catch up on. We have been blessed to have Garth off the last couple of weeks and have had some very fun times to share.

Saturday, February 6th, Garth and Dylan headed out in the rain to San Diego to watch Supercross. It was a first for both of them. They arrived early to walk around the pits.

Garth put his name in a raffle and won a signed jersey from the top ranking rider Ryan Dungey. Dylan had his picture taken with him and couldn't wait to show me the jersey when he got home. Dylan got a few other autographs and lots of new posters to decorate the trailer with sometime. The rain subsided about the time to begin racing and the guys really enjoyed watching all the action in person.

Here are a few pictures from there fun daddy/son day:

Dylan with Ryan Dungey

Family Pics

2010-02-15T22:27:00.000-06:00

We took the time on V-day to have some family pictures taken by Amy Boring. Surprisingly, we had a very fun family afternoon and really enjoyed meeting Amy. To see a few of the pictures she took click on the link and head on over to her blog. Leave a comment and if we get 30+, we get something fun. Enjoy!!!

http://www.aboringphoto.com/

Anything but THAT!!!

2010-02-06T17:53:00.000-06:00

And by THAT, I mean cleaning the house.

Cleaning is not my most favorite thing to do. It never has been. So, I am procrastinating. It reminds me of being in college and knowing that I needed to study for a test or write a paper, but doing anything but sounded good. Back then I would go run or get in the kitchen and bake. Today I am blogging. I already rode my bike this morning and I don't want to dirty up the kitchen baking (you know I'm supposed to be cleaning). Besides, I bought like $20 worth of Girl Scout cookies this morning and that equates to 5 boxes of cookies. Further solidifies the whole no-baking thing today.

SO here I am blogging.

The big boys - Garth and Dylan - headed down to San Diego this morning to attend the Supercross event. The races don't begin until 7 p.m., but you could go down early and walk around the pits. I hope they have a fabulous time together. Dylan was so excited to go to the races and hang with his dad. It is raining today, sadly, but the races go on anyways. I sent the camera with Garth, so I will post pictures soon.

We are all trying to enjoy some husband/daddy time with Garth. I think it has something to do with being in that "next-month" phase. He leaves NEXT MONTH. We have known since this summer he would be leaving, and here we are saying "next month".

Next month -

I will say good-bye to my husband.

The boys will say good-bye to their daddy.

But the upside is that we will finally be able to look forward to his return instead of dreading his departure. YEA!!

Thanks for everyones kind words and prayers. Each is treasured.

Okay, back to cleaning! Yeah right..... ;)

Jaydon's Bedtime Prayer

2010-02-03T23:24:00.000-06:00

I have been praying with Jaydon before he goes to bed. Sometimes he will say his own prayer. Tonight I was blessed by the following:

"Jesus, thank you. I love you very much. Amen! Yea!! " ((Clap))

Most precious moments.

Thank you Jesus for these most precious moments. I love you too.

Flag Football - Dylan

2010-02-02T16:10:00.000-06:00

These pictures were taken by a gentleman who's grandson plays for the other team. He was taking pictures all throughout the game. He approached us and asked if Dylan was our son because he said he thought he got a really great shot of him - and he DID!! The last shot here is the best out of his entire group and shows Dylan's great effort while on the field. We were proud to get this photo.

Jaydon NOW

2010-02-01T21:48:00.000-06:00

This is our Jaydon today!!

Our little man with LOTS of personality

Dylan NOW!!

2010-02-01T21:44:00.000-06:00

This is our Dylan!!

Football is his world

Eleven Years

2010-02-01T21:39:00.000-06:00

Garth and I celebrated 11 years of marriage on January 30th.

Friday night some friends kept the boys for us so we could attend a pre-deployment brief on base. It was nice to have a few kid-free hours, but we both wish we could have been somewhere else. I kept thinking to myself that eleven years ago I never imagined being at a point ready to send my husband off for a year. Craziness, I tell you.

Saturday we didn't do anything too special. We have never really done anything big for our anniversary - that is just us. We went to Dylan's football game in the morning. I sure do wish his little team could win one. However, he is a scrappy little player and fun to watch. He is a flag pulling dude. We get lots of joy watching him crash to the ground making moaning sounds in the process of pulling off some pour little soul's flag - pure JOY!!! :) After the game Garth went and bought us a new camera. It is a Canon Rebel XSi and so much fun to use. I can actually take a picture of the boys without it being blurry and get the picture when I actually hit the button. Who knew?? Later in the afternoon we enjoyed a visit from a friend that Garth worked with in Corpus. It was great to see him and catch up on life and the family.

Sunday was just another family day. We love those around here, but especially here as we approach the leave date. We got a little air pistol which is lots of fun for all of us to shoot. We spend the day in our little backyard shooting a squirrel target. Yes, I just said that.

That was our anniversary in a nutshell. We were blessed to have Garth off today also. It is so great to have him around. Who knew I would love him more today than I did 11 years ago??

Eleven days until Eleven years

2010-01-20T00:11:00.000-06:00

Garth and I are 11 days away from celebrating our 11th anniversary.

WELCOME 2010

2010-01-08T15:14:00.002-06:00

Happy New Year to You!!

Another year has dawned and we have even moved on to another decade.

As we turn the calendar to a new year these are a few of things we have to look forward to in 2010:

1. Garth and I will celebrate 11 years of marriage on January 30th.

2. Garth will leave for his year long deployment in mid-March.

3. The boys and I will move back to TX to be with family until Garth returns.

4. Dylan will have to adjust to a new school.

5. With Garth gone, we hope to spend a lot of the summer in CO.

6. Garth and I will turn another year older in July.

7. Our toddler boy Jaydon will turn the BIG 4 in August.

8. In October, Dylan will turn an unbelievable 9 years old.

9. In November, our little nephew Landon will be ONE!!! :)

These are a few of the things we have facing us this year. Some are very exciting and fun, others are painful, but enduring. We are thankful the Lord has brought us to yet another year. Without HIM we would be nothing. My prayer is that we do not lose focus on HIM. Amid all the uncertainly and change, we pledge to stand firm on the ROCK. I know that when we look back at 2010 someday, we will certainly see the Lord's hand of guidance and protection on our lives as we always have. I pray the same thing for you.

Dear Jesus,

Thank you for giving us 2010. Things are crazy these days. I'm so grateful to be called your child. I dedicate this year to you and you alone. Do with it and me as you would. May my life be a witness for you this year. Bring Garth back to me and while he is gone continue your work in him. (He is my love, you know that right?? ) Help me be the mommy my boys need while he is gone. Thank you for loving me. Thank you for your promises. May 2010 be a beautifully crafted work of art by YOUR HANDS in the end. Amen.

Happy 2010!!!!

Thanksgiving at Disneyland

2009-11-29T20:46:00.000-06:00

We pray you each had a very blessed Thanksgiving. I must say the Aldrich family enjoyed a very memorable one. We surprised the boys with a day at Disneyland. Below are some of our favorite pictures from our day.....

We're going to Disneyland boys

We're headed down the road

My first visit pin

The family in front of the Disney Castle

Do you think they are having fun?

Mickey ears

Meeting Mickey Mouse

And Goofy

SANTA!!!

Tigger

Me and My boys

Garth canoeing

Buzz Lightyear ride - my favorite

The end of the day - About how we all felt :)

A truly magical day

Thankful at Three

2009-11-22T17:03:00.002-06:00

Recently while I was at a MOPS meeting, Jaydon was in his class busy making a Thanksgiving placemat. It is "remember" worthy because it has a list of what he is thankful for at three. The mat is a laminated piece of construction paper with a cut-out of a turkey and a couple of leaves glued to it. It also has his hand traced on it. On one leaf is says "I am thankful for...." and on the other it list the following:

1. Mommy

2. Stickers

3. Blue blankie

4. Batman

5. Star Wars

That about sums up our boy at three.

Landon has Arrived!!

2009-11-10T08:29:00.002-06:00

Landon Lloyd Willis arrived yesterday.

Nissy is doing great and is a glowing mommy.

Blake is a very proud daddy who can't stop smiling.

I feel so blessed to have been here for the BIG day.

More to come................

A short note to my little sis

2009-10-27T16:38:00.004-05:00

Dear Nissy -

I can't believe you are about to be a Mommy. I am about to go crazy because every time my phone rings now, I think it could be you or someone calling to tell me you are in labor. I know you want little Landon to hold off another week or so, but I just don't know how much longer I can take it. It seems just like yesterday that you sat across my dining table and announced you were pregnant. I will never forget that special moment and am so glad it worked where you could tell me in person. Then you guys found out you were having a boy and I got to see pictures and the video of my sweet little nephew. I have enjoyed watching Dylan and Jaydon talk about having a boy cousin. Dylan says there are no girls allowed in the cousins room in CO. And Jaydon is looking forward for Baby Landon to escape from the cave. I am sad that I haven't been closer to watch him grow and been able to go with you to register for your stuff or be at your baby showers, but I am thankful for Ichats and pictures and phone calls. I am sad that I won't be in the waiting room when he arrives and one of the first to hold him, but I will be there as soon as I can.

I just want you know that I think you are going to be a fantastic mom. It is going to be fun watching you and Blake begin the journey of parenthood. You are blessed to have God as the center of your little family and as long as He remains there everything will be good, not always fun or easy or even perfect, but it will be good. God has entrusted you with little Landon because He knows you guys need Landon and Landon needs you. Try to relax and enjoy the parenthood ride. It continuously has its ups and downs, and I am learning that it never stops, but it is also something you wouldn't trade for the world.

I'm looking forward to the phone call. I can't wait to board a plane headed for TX to meet Landon when he arrives. Thank you so much for making me an aunt!! I can't wait to jump into that role.

You are dearly loved and I am blessed to have you as my little sister. Can you believe the next time I see you - you will be a MOMMY!!! I am so thankful we will now get to share that Motherhood bond. Sweet times, sweet times.

I love you!!

Lynita

Have you ever felt...

2009-10-26T22:26:00.002-05:00

STAGNANT

That has been the word of the day lately for me. I feel like my life is at a standstill. Actually, I am very busy right now. I am busy raising boys, keeping a household, organizing the logistics of life for the next few months. But, I feel like I am at a standstill. What is the deal?

What am I doing with my life? Am I using my time and efforts wisely? Am I available for God to use me? Do I feel God is using me? Why do I go day after day and feel absolutely no sense of reward or accomplishment?

Well this Sunday a children's choir from Uganda sang a couple of songs during the worship service. You know, I have heard better choirs, but it was just beautiful to see those kiddos singing about and to Jesus in their native tongue. Someone told those kids about Jesus. They sang with joy and feeling and smiles on their faces. It was very touching for me and I had to sit there and hold back my tears. Ridiculous I must say.

The choir finished up and and I remember telling the Lord - "I want to be used by You. I don't have to go to another country or do anything BIG on the spiritual spectrum. I will, if you want me to, but I really just want to be used to fulfill Your ultimate plan." About the time I finished those thoughts the worship leader asked us to stand to continue our worship and as I stood the world STAGNANT rang loud and clear in my head again.

Instantly the music began and the song "Living Rain" came back to haunt me. I began singing and as I listened to the words I was singing the tears began to flow. What the heck?? Control yourself Lynita. You and all your friends are sandwiched on this row like the old Youth Group days. FINALLY, the song ended. None to soon either.

I have been reading my Bible and praying and really trying to press in and seek after the Lord. But after all my efforts, I still feel like nothing is happening. Like, surely the Lord placed me on this earth for more that this. I've come to the realization that it is very much like running on a treadmill or a stationary bike. I get on the bike everyday. I work hard. I sweat. I hurt. I ride till I'm out of breath and my legs don't feel like they will move anymore. But, I don't go anywhere. After 30 minutes I'm still sitting in my living room. I do this though, so that when the time comes and I get on my trike and have the opportunity to ride I will be able to ride, to go the distance, achieve my goals without growing weary.

I will continue to pursue God even while I feel stagnant. Hopefully this is like a training period. Prayerfully, this is an opportunity for me to become strong in Him, get my armor on for what may come, wait before Him for the right opportunity. Be prepared and be ready so that when He does call upon me with my special mission, He will know He has the right woman for the job.

Dear God, Rain on me. Rain on my life. Thank you that you are the living rain, life changing rain. During this time of stagnation in my life, keep me focused on you. Prepare me to fulfill my destiny in You. Most of all - take as long as you need. I know you have plans for my life, but it is all in your perfect timing. Thanks God!!! Amen

Living Rain

2009-10-12T21:12:00.002-05:00

We sang this song at church on Sunday. I love the words especially the chorus. I pray these words speak to you also and you will make them your prayer.

Living Rain

by Parachute Band

We Your people come

In desperate need to You we run

Called by Your great name

With humble hearts we seek Your ways

We believe in faith

Your promises will never break

Turn from wicked ways

To live as Christ for all our days

Oh God high up in heaven

Won't You heal our land

Chorus:

Living rain, fall again

Over my life over my land

Living rain wash my heart again

Open wide, heaven skies

Over my street oh Spirit reside

Living rain flood my life again

Come back, back to your first love

Back to your first love

Back to the Cross

Come back, back to your first love

Back to your first love

At the foot of the Cross

Its Great to be Eight!!!

2009-10-12T20:15:00.008-05:00

Or at least we are about to find out!

HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY DYLAN!!!

Eight years ago today, I was supposed to be heading to my baby shower. Instead, my water broke early in the morning and off to the hospital we went. We arrived at about 9:30 am and at 10:25 am our little 5 lb. 5.6 oz baby boy was born. He was almost 3 weeks early, but perfect. Dylan Walker Aldrich entered the world and totally transformed us from Garth and Lynita to Dad and Mom. He made us parents and for that we are thankful. We love watching him grow and mature. He is all "BOY" and constantly on the move. He is loving and a pleaser. He is tenderhearted, but everything extreme. He loves me, but absolutely adores his dad. He is a

Daddy's boy 100%. God knew we needed him and he needed us. We wouldn't be complete without him. We are so blessed to call him our son.

Dylan age 4

We celebrated his birthday with a few buddies from school on Friday night. Dylan had a Star Wars party complete with pizza, cupcakes, a pinata, and glow sticks. He had a great time having his friends over and hanging out. Garth was a trooper and played football with the kids and at dusk took them out for the glow stick fun.

Today he gets to share some Skinny Cow ice cream sandwiches with his class and then gets out a bit early for an exciting........ wait for it........ well-check appointment and flu shot. Yes, I rock as a mom. We're playing it up that he gets out of school early and then off for some ice cream or something special when we are done.

Random thoughts

2009-10-07T17:35:00.002-05:00

I don't have anything to report today. Just letting you in on some random thoughts.....

1. I am reading my Bible - in case anyone was wondering. I try to read it daily and have probably missed about 5 days since I started. I am currently caught up with my daily reading. I find myself wanting to read the Bible now. I do have a problem though with wanting to remember the things that speak to me. I think I need a journal or something to collect those passages and then the disciple to note it.

2. The most recent verse that spoke to me was Proverbs 4:9. The chapter is talking about wisdom and how it is supreme and the benefits of it. Well, I long to live this life and deal with issues in a way that exemplify grace. I feel that most of the time, I just trudge through and hope for the best not always handling myself appropriately. So I read Prov. 4:9 and it says "She will set a garland of grace on your head, and present you with a crown of splendor." BAM!!! Hit me like a ton of bricks. By gaining wisdom through reading the living word of God, I receive my garland of grace!!! Bring it on! So I will continue to read, learn and grow.

3. Today, I'm thinking parenting isn't that great. Why don't I want to play with my 3 year old every minute of the day?? Or, help my 2nd grader with his homework when he wants to do anything but homework?? Why does "I want to paint mommy" from Jaydon really mean I want you to sit here and I will tell you how and what to paint? Could I please get just a little bit excited about planning a Star Wars 8 year old birthday party?? Seriously!!! Most of all, could someone please tell me how many more years I have to endure this wonderful brotherly bickering? GEEZZ!!!

4. I'm sad that we missed another year at the State Fair of Texas with the family. We'll be back one day Big Tex...

5. I miss my little pregnant sister. Landon is growing so much and I experience it through pictures and iChat. As Napoleon Dynomite's brother Kip said, "I love technology." We are just about one month away from our nephew's arrival. I can't wait to meet him.

6. I am in anticipation of what God is doing the the LAW family. I am not in the heat or front lines of any of it, but watching the puzzle pieces come together is so exciting. It is great to see the Lord working in my parents' lives. About the time you would think they would start slowing down a bit, God had something else in store. I anticipate lots of wonderful stories developing the the future.

7. Our little family is thinking about things and dealing with situations I never thought we would encounter. We are praying for perfect timing, direction, and protection.

8. I am loving this fall weather that finally arrived in Southern California.

9. Last but not least on the list of randomness - What is for dinner???

The sun shines brighter

2009-09-18T14:46:00.002-05:00

In the morning when you wake up think about what makes

the sun shine brighter on your day.

Or something like that. Jaydon and I popped into Starbucks today and as we were waiting on my drink, we were talking about the decor - colors, shapes, etc. One of the pictures had that written on it. Obviously it kind of got me thinking about what makes the sun shine brighter on my day. I have contemplated it for awhile. I have concluded that simply counting my blessing from God every morning - not that I do it - makes the sun shine brighter. I am so blessed. Here are a few I have counted today -

1. My Boys

I am blessed with a wonderful husband who loves me and his boys. He gets up everyday and goes to work so he can provide for us. I am blessed that we are okay. I don't have to worry about my marriage being on the brink of disaster. He is a great father who throws the football with Dylan and plays "Batcave" with Jaydon. He makes me laugh. My little boys provide lots of life and activity. There is never a dull or boring moment. They tell me they love me and give me wonderful hugs. My boys are a blessing.

2. My Family

I am blessed to have a fabulous family. My parents are the best in the world. They still love each other after many years of marriage. They would do anything for their kids and grandkids. They bring smiles to my boys faces. My sister and brother are great. I love watching them "grow up" and following their adventures in this life. I am better because of them. My sister and bro-in-law are about to make me an aunt. (I can't wait.) It will be so much fun to watch them enter the world of becoming parents. I am blessed that we are so close and love each other so much. We have shared tears of joy and happiness and tears of sadness and pain. We have shared hugs and high-fives and lots of fun and for this I am blessed.

3. My Health

Surprisingly I find blessings in my health. I am blessed because I have hope in the midst of the pain and confusion. I don't know how I would have made it these last 10 years without my feet on the Rock. I have taken more medications than I care to admit, been a pin cushion for countless nurses, initialed shoulders, elbows, and hips so a doctor would know which joint to work on, and sat waiting rooms being the only person without grey hair. I never imagined this would be my life course, but it is. I don't like it, but I am better for it. I can see God's hand in my life and will gladly share it with anyone who will listen. I am blessed because I know God is forever with me in the valleys and on the mountain tops. I am blessed because my Saviour is my bright light amid the darkness.

So this is a brief list of what makes my sun shine brighter in the morning. I could go on and on, but it is hard to write when a three year old is demanding my attention. I am thankful I read those words this morning and will try to more often remember the things that make my sun and the Son shine brighter in the morning. I hope you will think about it too.

Action Award

2009-09-11T22:32:00.004-05:00

It's time to brag about Dylan. Thankfully this come so naturally. :)

He received an award at school today. This Friday teachers of 2nd and 3rd graders were to choose students from their classrooms who exemplified one of the characteristics from the Pyramid Blocks. The students were awarded for one of the following:

Poise

Confidence

Fitness

Skill

Team Spirit

Self Control

Alertness

Action

Determination

Hard Work

Friendship

Loyalty

Cooperation

Enthusiasm

Personal Best

The Pyramid Blocks are posted in the office and the student's picture is placed on the Pyramid of Success. Dylan's name was called for being awarded the Action Award. We then went to his classroom and Mr. Stansbury read the following explaining why he received the award:

Dylan Aldrich earned a place on Abby Reinke's Pyramid of Success for his daily action. Dylan does his personal best every day. He is ready to take action because he is prepared to learn. He is not afraid to try. He gives 100% and gives his all everyday. When action is needed he heeds the call and never stalls. He takes action and does not waste time. He gets moving and takes action so he can succeed. He does his personal best.

We are so proud of Dylan's efforts in 2nd grade. We know he will accomplish great things as he continues to grow in all areas of his education. We pray he continues to work hard and has a great year.

Growing, growing, growing

2009-09-09T17:36:00.003-05:00

We took Jaydon to his three year old check up yesterday. We pulled in the parking lot and he said, "Not this place. Oh, man!" I was a bit surprised he remembered because the boys rarely get sick and we are usually at the doctor only for check ups. We are so blessed to have healthy boys.

I won't bore you with all the details, but he checked out to be a healthy three year old boy. The doctor asked him his name and he said, "I, Jaydon." She then asked how old he was and he said, "I, Jaydon. I, two." He then looked at me and said, "No, I three." He jumped up and down and hopped on one foot and was very interested in all the tools used to check his eyes, ears, and heart. Well, the 6 lb. 4 oz. 19 1/4 in. baby boy I held in my arms for the first time on August 10, 2006 has grown to 37 lbs. and 38 in. So if your asking how does that compare to other little boys - 94th percentile in weight and 60th percentile in height. He may never be a football player, but he certainly looks like a miniature football player now.

All the more to love!!! And we do love him so much.

Reason #289 Why 3 year old boys ROCK

2009-09-05T13:23:00.003-05:00

#289 - They can't go to bed without their super hero cape attached to their pjs.

I picked up Jaydon to take him to bed last night and he wouldn't go until he had his Batman cape attached to his jammies. Fast forward to this morning and it wasn't Jaydon I said "good morning" to, it was Batman, of course.

After coercing him out of his Batman pjs, he is now wearing his Superman t-shirt.

Now these are the moments I do love.

Challenge #2 - What I'm reading...

2009-08-31T14:17:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow is September 1st which begins my challenge to myself to read the Bible every day. I have been praying about what to read and really haven't come to any wonderful conclusions. I have had suggestions of doing something topical like read verses pertaining to the Holy Spirit or grace or love. Other ideas include just pick a book of the Bible and start reading and doing a read the Bible in a year program.

I didn't feel a direction or nudging either way, so I am going for the yearly reading program. I don't want to go buy a special Bible for this (I think we have too many at our house already that don't get read) so I am going to use Biblica. It is an online resource that has the reading program lined out for you. All you have to do is set the start date as September 1, 2009 and it will adjust the reading program for you. I think you can also sign up to have an email sent to your computer ever day with what you are to read. This makes it very accessible and leaves me no excuse to know what to read.

I will admit that there isn't much appealing to me about reading straight through the Bible. Yes, I just said that. I like devotional studies and Bible studies with people who help me understand and give me fresh insight. So why am I doing this? Well its simple really. God calls us to hide His Word in our hearts. We are to dig and find nuggets of wisdom from His Word. He also calls us to be equipped like warriors ready fight the Good Fight of Faith. This got me thinking about the soldiers who train and get ready for battle. Most do not like the do drills over and over or sweat or feel pain just for practice. But it is mandatory to do, otherwise when they go to battle they will fail for lack of preparation. All the work behind the scenes pays off when it really matters.

So, if this interests you at all join me in reading through the Bible this month. I know the Lord will bless you for taking the time to read His Word. He says His Word does not return void.

Let me know if you are going to try to get in the Word a little every day. I would love to pray for you and help encourage you.

Challenge #1 - 2 weeks down

2009-08-31T13:59:00.002-05:00

How is everyone doing with the 30 Days Green Smoothie Challenge?

I am prepared to give an honest report of the last two weeks:

1. Drink at least 16 oz. of green smoothie a day

I was doing so great until this past weekend. I had one every day up to Saturday and Sunday. I have missed two days so far of drinking a green smoothie. I find the weekends are harder for me to stay on track. I think it is because we get out of our everyday routine. I also let my fridge get quite bare and I find it harder to make my smoothies if I don't have a well stocked fridge.

2. Do some sort of activity for 15 minutes ever day.

Nailed this one so far. It really helps that I walk Dylan to and from school, so if I get no other exercise the rest of the day I at least got that. On the weekends I get a little walk in or ride my bike.

3. Add a salad with lunch or dinner.

Once again, so good until the weekend. I think I have had a salad at least once, sometimes twice a day up until this weekend. Once again, out of routine and an empty fridge. However, I can now manage a salad without ANY salad dressing. :)

4. Stop drinking pop.

I didn't drink soda in the first place. Check!!!

5. Cut out all white sugar.

I have failed here. The first couple of weeks I was doing so good. Then I watched the boys and a couple other cuties so Garth could go to a movie and he brought me back an iced mocha. I gave in. I am so weak I know. Other than that I have managed to go to an ice cream social, birthday party, and MOPS meetings and say NO to all the yummy looking sugar-filled treats.

So there you have it. Today is a new day and I have already downed my green smoothie for the day. I am hoping to get to Costco today for bulk fruits and veggies. I also need to find something to snack on to keep those sugar cravings at bay.

I hope you are having better success than me. Stick with it and the benefits will so out-weight that delicious iced mocha you are craving - OR at least that is what they tell me. :)

Challenge #1 - Day 1

2009-08-18T15:35:00.002-05:00

Yesterday was the first day of the "30 days of Green Smoothie" Challenge. It is always a good feeling to get one day checked off. I attained all the goals on Day 1 for the challenge.

I walked Dylan to/from school and came home in the morning and made a green smoothie made of spinach, coconut oil, grapes and frozen pineapple. I had a salad for lunch and spaghetti and salad for dinner. I made Garth a smoothie after dinner and enjoyed his leftovers.

I didn't have any sodas or sugar.

I find my hardest challenge so far is substituting green tea for a mocha. I am addicted to caffe mochas. I either get one at Starbucks or am spoiled and make one here at home with my espresso machine. I miss it a lot. Hopefully it will get easier as the days go on.

I hope you at least gave it a shot. There are a lot of great resources out there to help. Check out Happy Foody and read a few posts. She gives info on recipes, books that are helpful and just tricks to help your body make the transition to healthier eating. You can do it!!!

First day of 2nd Grade

2009-08-17T14:39:00.003-05:00

Dylan has started on a new adventure. He began 2nd grade today. He has been so excited this past week to get started mainly so he could wear his new clothes and really cool shoes.

Sunday we attended a Back to School BBQ at the park with some friends. It was such a neat time. I think there were about 21 kids from 8 families. Each child stated who their teacher is and what grade they are going into. Then we prayed over our kids and their teachers. What a neat way to kick things off, huh???

This morning I could tell Dylan was talking himself into the fun of going back. He wasn't hungry for breakfast and his poor little nerves were really showing. We headed for school and got to walk with a few of his friends. We went by to wish his 1st grade teachers a great year and then found his class. His teacher is Mr. Stansbury. He is really excited to have a male teacher. He found his seat and introduced himself. I gave him a kiss goodbye and that was it. I think he was holding it together pretty good. Sadly none of his little buddies from 1st grade are in is class, but he does know about 4 kids already.

I have enjoyed my time without him today, but I am also ready for 3:20 to roll around so I can go get my boy. I'm ready to hear about his day and make sure everything went well. I'll keep you posted on his progress. Hopefully this year's adjustment we be much smoother than last.

How about those shoes???? AND NERVES???

***UPDATE***

His first day went great. No tears - YES!!! He really enjoyed his teacher and being able to see all his little buddies. He actually couldn't hardly wait to get back to school today. He has also already started the after school activity of having friends over or going over to friend's houses. Friend here yesterday, he goes to a friend's house today, and we already have plans for after school tomorrow. He is back in his element. Thanks for all your prayers. The Lord heard and is faithful.

Is POTTY time!!!

2009-08-14T16:39:00.004-05:00

Yep we are going there!!! Wish us luck.

Trying, trying.......

Success!!!

Challenge #2

2009-08-14T14:31:00.002-05:00

I'm full of it today, I know.

After talking with some family members, who will remain anonymous, I wanted to challenge myself to read the Bible at least once a day for a month. So starting September 1st, I am going to try to set aside some time to get into the word for 30 days. I hope by disciplining myself, I will just be able to continue. I don't have any specific book I plan on reading or a devotional or bible study in mind or even an amount of time to read a day. I'm just committing to read. So, if this is something you struggle with and think a little challenge might help, then join me. You have a couple of weeks to decide how you want to approach the reading. If you decide to join, leave me a comment and let me know. We can be accountability blog buddies. I'll post throughout September and let you know how things are going. If you are already on top of this area in your life, then I ask that you would pray for the rest of us and let us know what helps you get it done. Okay, pray about it and let me know. I'm excited!!! Let's start digging....

Challenge #1

2009-08-14T14:18:00.002-05:00

I'm going to start this challenge:

We will begin on August 17 and end on September 17. Here is what you are committing to:

Drink at least 16 oz. of green smoothie per day (a quart would be even better!)
Do some sort of activity every day. This could be an intense workout, or just dancing with your kids around the living room. It could be a 15 minute yoga session or a walk around the block.
Add a green leafy salad to your lunch or supper (with light dressing…stay away from the creamier sauces).
Stop drinking pop.
Cut out all white sugar.

I follow this blog called Happy Foody and this is something she is challenging people with. I already drink a green smoothie almost everyday and I don't drink soda. I am going to concentrate on adding a salad once a day and avoiding white sugar. It's only for one month. Anyways, I'm on board!! So, if you care to join me let me know.

We can do it.

And He's Three!!!

2009-08-14T13:53:00.003-05:00

We have a three year old in the house!!

I can't believe three years have passed so quickly. We are so blessed to have Jaydon in our lives. He is a live wire. He has many expressions - both good and bad. He loves to drag out all the books and look through them. He enjoys pulling all the puzzles out and putting them back together. Superheroes anyone?? He is all things superhero. He loves his Superman pjs and you can usually find him acting like Spiderman or Batman. He is also a huge Star Wars fan. He has watched all six movies - ALL six, many times. He can tell you who the characters are and oftentimes gives you a weapon of some sort and challenges you to a duel. He likes to roughhouse with Dylan and already knows what buttons to push to get him going. That said, he misses his brother when he is at school and is Dylan's best supporter in all his activities - GO DYLAN!! Jaydon is currently taking swim lessons once a week and throughly enjoys them. We just started "potty training" - oh, the joy. My favorite time of the day with him is at night before he goes to bed and we are having some down time. I love holding his little body in my lap while he rubs his lips with his ratty, blue blanket.

We love this little boy and look forward to watching him grow. We love you Jaydon!!!

MY NEW TOY!!

2009-07-23T21:53:00.004-05:00

Yep - I got a new ride. The RA has caused some problems with my foot, so I have had to give up running at least for now. I can't ride an upright bike because of my replaced shoulder and messed up elbow and wrist. So, I got a recumbent trike. It is called a Catrike Expedition. I took it out on a quick ride tonight for the first time and really enjoyed it. I got a lot of looks on it. :) How do you like the green?????

Jaydon's turn for a ride -

I think he liked it.

Garth's turn to take it for a spin -

In the news

2009-07-17T17:48:00.002-05:00

Dylan made it into the local newspaper. I know no one is surprised by that. I have attached the link of the story on the athletic camps that the city offers. Dylan participated in the multi-sport camp last week and also the football camp this week. The city offers all these great programs for the kids. He really enjoyed both of them.

Click on the link and he is in the last picture on the right.

http://www.myvalleynews.com/story/39301/

Isn't he cute?? Look at the determination on that face. He may be little, but don't count him out!!! We really love and cherish that boy.

Quick Snapshot

2009-07-09T19:55:00.005-05:00

I just haven't been in the blogging mode lately. BUT, I do feel the need to update you on some of the Aldrich happenings. So here it goes.......

We officially have a 2nd grader on our hands. Dylan finished up his 1st grade year mid-June. Grammy and Granddad came for a visit to help celebrate that weekend. We enjoyed their stay as always and are looking forward to seeing them again soon. During their stay Dylan had a flag football game, we visited a car show in Escondido, and made a trip up to Palomar Mountain. Thanks for the visit Mom and Dad.

Two weeks later we enjoyed a weekend visit with Grandma Sue. She treated the boys to some great new toys and video game and a couple of wonderful new sleeping bags to use when we go camping. We enjoyed some swimming at the neighborhood pool and time at La Jolla beach. We are so glad she took the time to come out to see us. We look forward to the next visit.

In the mean time, I have just been trying to keep Dylan busy. He has enjoyed a Bible School at the Methodist Church and one at our church. He also enjoyed three days of Art Camp at Painted Earth. I haven't seen his creations yet. I think I get to pick them up tomorrow. This week he has been involved in multi-sport camp. He attends from 8:30am-10:30am. The kids have played baseball, dodgeball, kickball, flag football, basketball, and volleyball. He has really had a blast participating. He finishes up the camp on Friday and then starts flag-football camp on Monday. On top of all that, both Dylan and Jaydon are taking swim lessons once a week. Jaydon can now put his head under water and is much more relaxed when he is on his back. Dylan is progressing nicely. He has already moved up from level 3 to level 4 and I was told that in a couple of weeks he will be moving on to level 5 where we will learn other strokes like the breast stroke. They both have a lot of fun are and improving all the time.

That gets you quickly caught up on our life. We are looking forward to celebrating Garth's birthday this weekend, camping next weekend, my birthday the end of the month and planning for a big 3 year old birthday in August for our little Star Wars Jedi.

The biggest news is that Nissy and Blake are having a BOY. Hooray for boys. We will be blessed to be an aunt and uncle to a little boy in November. We are so excited and they are very loved.

Well, I hope to be back sooner than later!!!

The work of our hands

2009-06-02T20:03:00.003-05:00

Psalm 90:17

"May the favor of the Lord rest upon us;

establish the work of our hands for us -

yes, establish the work of our hands."

I have this verse written on a notecard and it is placed next to my sink in the bathroom. I can't even remember why I have it written on a notecard or when I placed it in the bathroom. All I know is that every time I have read it lately, I am encouraged.

I will preface this by expressing I have done no research on this verse to establish the context for which it was written.

I must say that I do not think anyone ever told me parenting would be so challenging. Oftentimes, I feel so ill-equipped to care for our two boys. We desire to love them, keep them safe, make sure they are healthy. We desire to impart to them Christian beliefs, conservative ideals, strong morals. We desire for them to be drawn to our Lord as their Saviour. I am only listing a few of the desires we have for our boys - and this is already a tall order. How do Garth and I properly parent these children to best ensure our desires and expectations are met?

We have failed so many times as parents. There are words I wish I could take back and spanking and disciple I wish I would have given. There are times I wish I would have stopped doing the laundry or washing the dishes and sat in the floor and played cars or read a book. But, I can't look back. I can only move forward and try again another day.

We have publicly given these boys over to the Lord, and I find myself more and more giving them over every day. I lack in so many aspects of my parenting skills that I need someone to make up the difference. I am so thankful that I have Jesus to turn to. He is the ultimate Father and we can learn so much about parenting by reading His Word.

Now back to Psalm 90:17. I think at this point in my life, Dylan and Jaydon are the work of my hands. I am a stay-at-home mom and focus all my attention and energy to these kids. They deplete me of all my time and energy on a daily basis. Jaydon is in a massive terrible two stage. I couldn't even make it into the grocery store the other day because of the tantrum he was throwing. These types of things happen on a daily basis. Dylan is growing up and maturing, but he is still as busy as ever. He is constantly on the go and wants to know where we are going, or what we are doing and with whom we are doing it with. At the end of the day I feel like all I have done is housework, spanked bottoms, and said "Not now".

Because I am not the perfect parent I pray that the Lord establishes the work of my hands. I hope He can see my efforts and look past my failures, bridge the gaps and establish my work - my children. I pray that despite my shortcomings our boys grow up to be established works of the Lord. I pray they are beacons on light in this ever darkening world. I know the Lord hears our cries and prays that he will sustain us as parents to continue the good fight even during those very nasty days.

Dylan and Jaydon are blessings for the Lord and we are so humbled to be called their mom and dad. We love them, treasure them, and pray for them often. I know with the Lord's favor is upon us and He will establish the works of our hands!!!!

Grandparent Visit

2009-06-02T13:47:00.004-05:00

We had the joy of having Papa Bill and Grandma Lenore visit over the weekend. This was their first visit out to Temecula, so we enjoyed showing them around our new stomping grounds.

They arrived Friday night. The boys were excited to have them here for a visit. Dylan wasted no time and took Papa Bill on a bike ride around the neighborhood. We enjoyed dinner here at home and had fun watching Garth and Dylan teach Bill and Lenore how to play Rock Band. You did good guys!!!

Saturday Dylan had a football game. It is so fun to think about how much they have improved. This team had a girl on it and she was great. She got the ball and ran it in for a touchdown early on. Dylan and the other little boys were in awe. How'd she do that? Well, Dylan then went into defense mode. I've never seen him get so many opponents' flags. He did a great job, and he had a great run too!!

In the afternoon, we took the boys over to the hotel to swim. They had a blast. Dylan jumped right in. Jaydon was a bit unsure of the water at first, but in no time he was enjoying th

e water too. It was fun to watch Garth and Bill play with the boys in the pool. We ended the evening with a delicious meal at a Mediterranean grill. The best part was the appetizer - Sweet Potato slices fried with coconut and Parmesan cheese. YUMMY!!!

Sunday the sun finally decided to shine. We went to a berry farm here in town and picked blueberries. It was so fun to watch the boys. Jaydon got his bucket and knew exactly what to do. We then went off to the wine country. Bill and Lenore had a chance to taste a few wines. The winery was beautiful - the flowers and landscaping were breathtaking. We went off to a campsite to let Garth ride his bike with a buddy. The boys enjoyed playing putt-putt golf with their friends. Dylan even got a quick bike ride in with his dad!!!

We told Papa Bill and Grandma Lenore good-bye Sunday night. We look forward to them visiting again soon.

Memorial Day Weekend

2009-06-02T13:28:00.004-05:00

I haven't been keeping up with this very well, so I have to backtrack a bit.

We had a great Memorial Day weekend. Garth got off Friday afternoon and we enjoyed having him around until he went back to work on Wednesday. Dylan did not have a football game on Saturday, so we went down to the Farmer's Market downtown instead. I loaded up on a bunch of fresh fruits and veggies. We tried out a hamburger joint in Old Town for lunch and really enjoyed our meal. In the afternoon, we took the boys to see Monsters vs. Aliens. The boys did great. Jaydon can sit through anything while munching on a bucket of popcorn. Garth and I even enjoyed the movie and really liked watching it in 3-D - very cool!!! That was enough fun for the day, so back home for some cleaning and organizing.

Sunday we had the privilege of watching Dylan sing at church in the Children's Choir. The kids did a great job singing for everyone. We filmed it and will post it once we have a chance. After church we went to lunch and then headed over to Pottery Barn and bought a rug for our living room. It looks great.

Monday we spend most of the day at the park with some friends. Garth and Dylan enjoyed a great game of soccer and Jaydon and I played on the playground.

Tuesday Dylan had school, so Garth headed down to Escondido to check out a bike store. Most of our friends out here are avid mountain bikers, so Garth was getting the itch to ride with them. He found himself a bike and some gear and even a carrier. Dylan even got a new bike. We wanted him to have it now, so he could take it on vacation this summer.

Those are the highlights of our holiday weekend. We hope you enjoyed yours too!!!

TTT on Wednesday

2009-05-20T13:14:00.002-05:00

I have a delicious and very easy crock-pot recipe to share. We all really enjoyed the dish and Garth counts it now as a favorite. I think it was adapted from a recipe in Real Simple.

Crock-pot Short Ribs with Cabbage and Carrots

1/3 cup soy sauce

2 T. honey

1/4 cup rice vinegar

2 garlic cloves, crushed

1 T. grated fresh ginger

1/2 t. red pepper flakes

2-3 lbs. beef short ribs

5 carrots peeled and cut into 2 in. slices

1 medium green cabbage cut into eighths

1 T. sesame oil

4 green oils, sliced

In the crock pot combine the soy sauce, honey, vinegar, garlic cloves, ginger, and pepper flakes. Place the short ribs and carrots in the the pot. Arrange the cabbage on top of the ribs and carrots.

Cook on low for 7-8 hours. About an hour before serving, stir it all together so the cabbage can get down into the juices. This is optional, but I also cut the beef off the bones and into bite sized pieces so the meat could soak up the juices.

We served it over a bed of brown rice drizzled with sesame oil and green onions.

It was a treat.

From Pre-schoolers to Mammograms

2009-05-19T15:37:00.002-05:00

This has been my Tuesday:

I had my first meeting with the MOPS table leaders today. It was great to see the women's faces I would be working with and get to know each other a bit. It was also good to catch the vision of our coordinator. I think this is an exciting ministry to be a part of and am looking forward to things starting up this fall.

I have to admit, that I was feeling a bit old during our get together. Only two other mom's have older children in school. Everyone else is truly in that Pre-school or younger stage with their children.

So, I had to leave early to make that dreaded yearly woman's check up. I had Jaydon in tow because everyone else had something today too. He just sat and played with this Star War's bucket. He did great. The doctor comes in and does the exam. She asks about family history of breast cancer and I explain. At the end, she asks if I would like to have a mammogram done. WHAT??? Of course, I don't want a mammogram done. Who does? My mom and grandmothers have those done. She explains that she doesn't detect anything wrong, but I am a candidate for an early mammogram because of family history.

Talk about two extremes. One minute I'm talking to mommies about their pre-schoolers and the next minute I am setting up an appointment for a mammogram. And this all happened before noon. I thought turning 30 was hard, but I am still reeling and in disbelief that I have a mammogram appoint set up for next Friday.

Good grief!!! At this rate, they'll be scheduling a colonoscopy tomorrow.

Hi! My name is Lynita Aldrich and I have entered the world of the yearly mammogram. That just stinks!!!!!!

I feel a bit better now that I have shared. Thanks for listening.

Texas Weekend

2009-05-19T15:11:00.003-05:00

I'm back in California!!!

I had a wonderful weekend in Texas visiting my family. Garth did a great job with the boys. We are also blessed with wonderful friends who gave their time and energy to make sure the boys were taken care of on Thursday.

My flight was delayed about 2 hours getting out of San Diego because of storms in Dallas. I arrived about 5 p.m. and was met by my mom and sister. Let the fun girl time begin. We hit one mall for a bit of shopping before getting to my parents' house. Nissy took Friday off, so we both stayed at mom and dad's and woke up the next day for a full day of fun. We headed up to Northpark Mall and did some maternity shopping for Nissy, shopped for the boys, and for me of course. I may have found my new favorite store to shop - Anthropology. It was a joy to be with two of my favorite women for some much needed girl time. I hope to do it again sometime - sooner than later.

Saturday was the big day!!! We celebrated Buddo graduating from Baylor University and my parents success in sending all three of their children through college. (We are pretty blessed kids.) I have missed a lot of Buddo's "stuff". I am so glad I got to see him walk across that stage and receive his diploma he worked so hard for. I am so proud of him and all his accomplishments while in college. I know the future is still a bit unsettled, but I pray the Lord will continue to bless his life and use him to be a blessing to those around him. After the ceremony we headed over to Blake and Nissy's for "gut packs". If you know my brother, you know this is so fitting. A gut pack consists of Fritos, sausage, beef, beans, cheese, onions, peppers, and pickles. If that doesn't say Buddo, I don't know what does. It was great visiting with some dear family friends and family.

Then Sunday came all too soon and I was back on a plane to California.

Thanks for letting me spend a weekend away, Garth. I truly am glad I was able to see Buddo graduate. It was also so nice to spend some time with my sis and mom. It was kind of like a recharge for my battery. It was quite freeing to do some things for myself by myself. Thanks for managing the boys while I was gone and not complaining about it. I know it can be trying at times. I know the boys enjoyed their special time with Dad. Now, maybe sometime soon we can have some time together without the boys. What fun that would be!!! I love you and thank you.

TTT

2009-05-12T13:05:00.002-05:00

I've got a great one for you today!! It is nothing fancy at all, but it is all so good. Last night we had rice bowls and roasted sweet potatoes for dinner.

The rice bowls were very tasty. I will give you a run down of what we had in them, but really you can tweak it to fit your taste buds.

Rice Bowls

Rice (we had brown)

Beans (we had black and refried to choose from)

Guacamole

Salsa

Cheese

Thats it!! Grab you a bowl. Layer it with rice, beans, guacamole, salsa, and cheese. Eat!!!

I had some leftover brown rice that needed to be eaten, so this was a great way to get rid of it. Garth and I both used black beans, but I think refried would have worked too. I made fresh guacamole and salsa. You could also add chicken, beef, green chilies, some veggies - really anything you would like to toss in.

Roasted Sweet Potatoes

Sweet Potatoes

Salt

Maple Syrup

Butter

Cut up the sweet potatoes kind of like steak fries. Place in a bowl and sprinkle with salt. Melt butter and maple syrup together. Pour over the potatoes and toss. Place potatoes on greased cookie sheet just not too crowded. Pour remaining maple syrup/butter mixture over the potatoes. Place in 425 degree oven and bake until they start to brown. (I didn't pay any attention to the time - sorry.)

These were a delight. I think next time I will not cut them up so fat. I think a bit thinner and crispier would have even been better. Once again, its all up to you.

So, give these a try. They are both so easy, yet delicious. And go out on a limb and make your own guacamole and salsa. You will taste the difference and be so glad you did. This would be a great party dish too. Just set out all the options and let people build their own.

BTW - Just two more sleeps till TEXAS, but who's counting????

Mother's Day Weekend

2009-05-11T16:16:00.002-05:00

I hope all you Mom's and Mom's-to-be had a wonderful weekend. We sure did.

Garth arrived back on Friday. We are all glad to have him home. The house just seems to run better when he is here.

On Saturday Dylan had another football game. We FINALLY played a team of little boys like the Vikings. Dylan caught a pass and ran it in for a touchdown. It was one of those passes where he is covered well and kind of fumbles it a bit before securing it and running it in for the score. Great focus that Dylan has. :) So the game is tied and we we enter sudden death. The other team had a chance to score first. They were denied. Our turn. Dylan lines up at quarterback. He gets the ball and just lets it sit there behind his head. Its the old Statue of Liberty play. A little guy runs up behind him, grabs the ball, and runs it in for a touchdown. The Vikings win. Yep, finally a win. Dylan did the happy dance - We win, we win. (Garth nipped that real quick.) Lots of high five's and smiles all around.

Some friends were camping this weekend down at the beach in Carlsbad, so we went down to join them for the afternoon. We took the boys down to the beach and they had so much fun. It was a bit chilly, but Dylan didn't care at all. He loved playing in the ocean with this buddies. Jaydon was content just playing with is Star Wars bucket of toys in the sand. As we were leaving the water to head back to the campsite we saw a few dolphins jumping up out of the water. It was a cool experience. Back at the site we enjoyed dinner and the boys continued to play with their friends. Garth and Ben played their guitars and we ended the night with s'mores by the campfire.

I was blessed Sunday with a great Mother's Day with my boys. We had lunch at PF Chang's. It was so good and a real treat because it wasn't fast food or Rosa's. We spent the rest of the day just hanging out. It was a great way the spend the day.

I am so blessed to be called "MOM". I admit that I get worn down by the job at times, but I do love my boys. I feel honored that God entrusted these little treasures to me to raise. Dylan and Jaydon - Thank you for making me a mom. I'm so glad you are mine and I love you more than life itself.

With that said, I have the pleasure this week of having some time away from my little boys. I get to go to Texas for Buddo's graduation from Baylor. We are so proud of him and his many accomplishments while there. I can't believe we are all graduated. I also get some much anticipated time with my mom and my little "mom-to-be" sister. I can't wait. I know the time will be wonderful and will pass too quickly. Please keep me in your prayers as I travel and Garth and the boys in your prayers that things will go well ( I would love to do it again sometime). :)

Have a wonderful week.

TTT

2009-05-05T15:32:00.002-05:00

Its Tuesday already. We are managing the week without Garth around. He left Saturday morning for an exercise in Twenty-nine Palms and will return on Friday - we hope. Dylan had a football game on Saturday. We didn't use the camera or the video camera this go around because once again he played another great team. These boys were so tall and good. The coach walked around with a clipboard and out of the huddle every kid would go exactly where they were assigned and execute the play. Bless our little team's hearts!!!! We made it through the first half without totally falling apart. However, the second half brought the Aldrich name some glory. Dylan caught the ball and ran almost the entire field for a touchdown. It was a proud moment. I think I actually cheered him on from upon the field I was so excited to see him heading for the end zone. That was the lone touchdown for the Vikings. The boys got crushed once again, but with the big smiles on their little faces, you would have never known.

On to the food -

Its just another chicken dish. Nothing too exciting, but very easy. Refer to the Agave Lime Chicken basically, but substitute apples and rosemary.

Apple Rosemary Chicken

Whole Chicken

1/4 c olive oil

1/4 c balsamic vinegar

sea salt

4 apples

4 sprigs rosemary

Place a whole chicken in a baking dish. Place the rosemary under the chicken. Drizzle olive oil and balsamic vinegar over the chicken. Sprinkle with salt. Cut and core apples and place around the chicken. I put a quarter apple in the cavity of the chicken. Bake at 350 degrees for about 1 1/2 hours or until done.

(compliments Elana's Pantry)

Just for Mommy.....

2009-05-01T15:34:00.003-05:00

We ate dinner out last night at a local Mexican restaurant. It was a real treat. Anyways, we have been teaching Jaydon to pray before our meals and last night was just too cute to ever forget.

Ward ("Lord" in 2 yr old language) bwess ( "bless" in 2 yr old lingo) ony (he always says some word we don't understand to start things off), Jack, Jackson, my Star Wars - Where are my Star Wars? One, two, three, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten. Amen YAY!!!!!!

I need a few of these very cute moments to help me through some very trying times with my toddler. He has entered the world of testing, trying, and fit throwing. I find myself praying a lot more these days. :) Its funny how these little blessings from God can bring us to our knees - and so quickly!!!

Flag Football - Game 1

2009-04-28T15:53:00.002-05:00

Dylan had his first flag football game on Saturday morning. The little guys had only one practice before the game..... it showed. The other team was huge. There is now way they were 6-8 years old. With that said, Dylan had a great time playing. He played quarterback and loved it. He had a few pitches and threw a few times. The passes were picked off by the giants. Oh well, they lost horribly, but you wouldn't know it from Dylan's stories of the game.

TTT

2009-04-28T15:49:00.002-05:00

MMMMMMMM.........

Brownies!!!!

1/2 c butter, melted

1 c sugar or sucant

1/4 c cocoa powder

1 egg

1 t vanilla

3/4 c whole wheat flour

1/2 c chocolate chips

Stir together butter, sugar, and cocoa powder. Mix in egg and vanilla. Stir in flour and mix until combined. Fold in chocolate chips. Pour in a 8x8 greased baking dish. Bake at 350 degrees for at least 20 minutes.

These were a winner. My pickiest loved them with some homemade strawberry sorbet.

Trust in the Lord???? Seriously????

2009-04-24T13:14:00.002-05:00

I admit it. I'm kind of an after-the-fact girl. I sit and wonder and worry about how things are going to work out. I may say I know God has it under control, but deep down (sadly) I still question his abilities. I know, I know - an area that is under construction.

Well just this week I received a couple of revelations of how God has had his hands on us. Its as if he was leaning down from heaven whispering in my ear - "I told you so" (in the sweetest, Fatherly way possible of course).

Moving out to California was not the easiest thing I have ever had to do. I am a small town, conservative Texas girl. What ever will I do in the land of craziness??? Well, we are living smack dab in the middle of probably the most conservative area in SoCal. Its really great. Other than being too far from TX, I'm digging living here. Anyways, I have two quick examples of how God has shown me He is with us.

1. Dylan is in a public school. It's one of the best in the area. He had a really hard time adjusting, but is doing great. When we moved out here last June we had no idea about teachers. We didn't put in a teacher request. All we could do was pray (and worry) for the best. Well, I have learned over the last few months, that is exactly what he got - the BEST. Mrs. Owen and Mrs. Moore are fantastic teachers. They have nurtured Dylan to help him overcome his problems and helped him to grow and learn intellectually. Most importantly though, I have discovered that they are both believers in Jesus. Can you believe it? Out of like seven 1st grade classes - we have been blessed as parents to know Dylan's teachers love Jesus. How great is that???

2. Since we moved in June, and of course school hadn't started yet, we didn't know anybody. I mean not a soul did we really meet until Dylan started school. We went to the pool almost everyday to pass a couple of hours. Well, there was a really sweet woman there named Ms. Sue doing laps every morning. Dylan, being the friendly guy he is, struck up a conversation with Ms. Sue. From then on she was his pool buddy. He would patiently wait for her to finish her laps and then she would take the time to play with him. They would chat and play water games together. The summer progressed and she would talk about her nephew and niece that she wanted Dylan to meet. Well, school started and the early day pool visits stopped, so we never saw Ms. Sue again - until last night. Dylan had Open House at school. As we were leaving, I saw a woman in front of us walking and asked Dylan - "Is that Ms. Sue?" Sure enough it was. I couldn't believe it!!! She gave Dylan a big hug and a big smile. Crazy enough - Ms. Sue is the aunt of some friends we go to church with - and Dylan totally knows her nephews and nieces.

These are just simple examples of God's hand on our family. It has been fun to reflect back and see him working. My prayer is that I will begin to just expect and trust Him to work all things out for good. I hope this is encouraging to you and you take the time to reflect on the ways God has worked in your life.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

Earth Day

2009-04-22T13:02:00.002-05:00

(compliments of the resident photographer MOM)

I just want to share a verse -

"For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities - his eternal power and divine nature - have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse." Romans 1:20 (NIV)

Our precious Father is so wonderful to allow us to experience Him even in this beautiful Earth he allows us to live on. Just look outside or reflect back on places you have visited and ponder the beauty in creation and nature that was formed just by God's spoken word.

Happy Earth Day!

TTT

2009-04-21T13:21:00.002-05:00

Its Tuesday..... and I have a couple recipes to share in a moment.

The Aldrich family is alive and well here in sunny Southern California.

Garth is working, working, working. He leaves in the morning before the rest of the house is up and isn't home most days until at least 6:30 pm. He has duty this weekend and then is gone the next week for an exercise. We are feeling a bit "daddy/hubby" deprived, but try our best to understand. Please pray for him and his job. And more important than that - pray he will not worry about tomorrow or 5 yrs from now or 10 yrs, etc. He is robbed of his joy for today worrying about if things will be alright tomorrow. We love him and appreciate his hard work and dedication for us and to us. We love you Garth!!

Our Dylan is a busy little guy. He is doing great in 1st grade. He is working on money in math and continues to excel in his reading and writing (such a shocker). He has his Open House at school this Thursday. We are looking forward to attending and seeing some of his work. There will be a project displayed of the kids writing from the first day of school and one from recently. I have been told by his teacher/friend that Dylan's is the best one. I'm sure the difference will be amazing. He has started weekly practice for a little choir at church for Memorial Day weekend. The kids will sing a few "God and country" songs for the services. He wanted to do it and Garth and I figure he needs to know a couple of these songs to further emphasize our "We love our God and our Country" influences. Dylan told his teacher that he enjoyed the choir because he likes to be a star on stage. (I will not even try to expound on that statement.) He also begins flag football practice tomorrow. He is on the Vikings team. We got him some football cleats over the weekend. He is beside himself to get out on that field and play him some football. (Too bad he is 7 and only 50 lbs. God put some meat on those little bones.) I'll post pictures and video when I have it.

Jaydon, Jaydon, Jaydon. He is our little lovable firecracker. What a character this one is!! He is all about Star Wars, monster trucks, motorcycles, superheroes, and Nacho Libre. He loves playing with friends, going to the park and having a good, cold popsicle. Lately he has really been into the Bibleman DVD's. These movies are so corny they are almost painful to watch, but the boys love them and they have a good message. So Jaydon goes around saying - Jesus is my rock, my shield, my salvation. It is pretty funny. Especially because he normally says it when he is displeased with you.

Now to some recipes -

Santa Fe Rice Pilaf with Chicken

2T olive oil

1 small onion, chopped fine

1 c uncooked brown rice

2 1/2 c hot broth - I used vegetable

1 t cumin

1/2 t oregano

1 can green chilies

shredded cooked chicken

Heat olive oil in sauce pan and saute onion until soft. Add in the uncooked rice and stir fry for 2-3 minutes until rice is nicely coated and turns a golden brown. Add spices and stir to coat. Slowly stir in broth. Add green chilies and chicken. Bring to a boil. Cover and reduce heat to low. Simmer about 45 minutes until liquid is absorbed and rice is soft.

We really enjoyed this meal. You can change the ingredients to your liking - use bell peppers instead of chilies, add different spices. Use what works for you and your family. Also, wait and make this when you have leftover chicken. I made this with my leftovers from the agave lime chicken. It is a great way to use those leftovers in the fridge.

Sloppy Joes

1 lb. ground beef

1 onion, finely chopped

1 bell pepper, finely chopped - I have used both red and green

1 c ketchup

1 T mustard

1 T apple cider vinegar

1 T maple syrup

Brown beef with onion and peppers. Add the following ingredients until heated through.

This is so easy and a healthy alternative to the sloppy joe mixes at the grocery store. I serve it on my homemade wheat bread with cheese grilled in our panini press. Make some sweet potato fries/chips and a salad and serve with some watermelon and you have a fun meal for a hot summer day.

We hope this finds you and yours well.

Many blessings.

Prayer Request

2009-04-14T13:46:00.002-05:00

I have a quick prayer request. I have been approached about being a table leader for the MOPS program at our church. I know it doesn't seem that major, but I want to make the right decision. It basically means I would head up a table of about 8 women at a bimonthly meeting. The meetings are fun - brunch, mixers, games, crafts, speakers, and discussion (where I come in). Anyways, I don't want to miss an opportunity to serve or be used by God, but at the same time, this is not something I would normally do. I tend to steer clear of those tasks involving anything leader-like. Please pray I will make the right decision. If this is where God wants to use me then pray I take the brave step up. Or if God wants me somewhere else, please pray I will know the answer is no and wait patiently for another opportunity. Thanks for your prayers.

Taste Test Tuesday

2009-04-14T13:16:00.003-05:00

I have been trying out a lot of new recipes lately. Some we like, others come up a bit lacking. My desire is to begin sharing more recipes that we enjoy on a regular basis. I plan on having a post called Taste Test Tuesday every Tuesday to share our findings and also allow you a chance to share any new recipe you have tried and enjoy.

So to the first of hopefully many Taste Test Tuesday entries -

Agave Lime Chicken

(compliments of Elana's Pantry)

1 whole chicken

1-3 T olive oil

1/4 c raw agave nectar

1 T sea salt

3 limes

2 onions

1 head garlic, crushed

dash cumin

dash chili powder

Place chicken in 9x13 baking dish breast side down. Drizzle with olive oil and agave nectar, then sprinkle with salt, cumin, and chili powder. Stuff one lime in the cavity of the bird. Cut other 2 limes and place around in the pan. Cut the onions in half (leaving on skin) and place in pan around chicken. Scatter the garlic on the chicken. Bake at 350 degrees for 45 min. until the skin starts to brown. Remove the chicken and flip over. Put back in the oven at 450 degrees for 15-25 minutes. Carve and serve with pan juices.

We had this chicken for our Passover Seder and it was delicious. It is so easy to prepare - not many ingredients and pop it in the oven. I like those meals. Serve it up with some brown rice and a big salad and you've got a wonderful dinner - in a snap and easy to clean up. My taste testers loved it. Garth and Mr. Picky both ate it up.

Granola Bars

(compliments of Kitchen Stewardship)

4 1/2 c rolled oats

1 c whole wheat flour

1 t baking soda

1 t vanilla

1 c butter, softened

1 c honey

Add ins - 1 c mini chocolate chips, 1 c walnuts, dried fruit, flax seeds - the options are endless - use what you like

Lightly butter (I used coconut oil) a 9x13 pan. Combine all ingredients except your add ins. Beat the mixture hard. Stir in add ins. Press mixture into pan - really push it in there so the bars stick together. Bake at 325 degrees for 25 minutes or until golden brown. Cool for 10 minutes before cutting. Allow to cool completely and remove from pan for storage. These can be kept on the counter or in the refrigerator or even the freezer.

These make a great snack or alternative to a sugary dessert. They are very easy to make and have to be healthier than the granola bars we buy at the store. Dylan didn't much like them, but he's also not a big chocolate eater. I thought they tasted good and Garth has used them to take to work for breakfast and snacks through the day. When I make them again I plan or using 1/2 c homemade peanut butter in place of half of the butter. I'll let you know how that turns out.

I hope you enjoy the recipes. Most of you guys don't have time to play in your kitchen, but give these a try when you have time. Let me know what you think about these two recipes if you give them a go. Now it is your turn. Have you made something new lately that you really enjoy and would like to share. I would love to give it a try.

Many blessings!!!

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T18:32:00.002-05:00

Garth and Jaydon are napping and Dylan is building on his new Lego set, so I have a few minutes to say - "Happy Easter!!" We hope your day has been a very blessed one.

Last night, we did have our Seder dinner. It was fun and very special. It can be a bit trying to do something like that with a 2 year old, but it was still a blessing. We hope to become comfortable enough with the ceremony to be able to share it with our friends and family sometime soon.

This morning we went to church and enjoyed a morning of celebration - but why not, Jesus is risen. The worship was fantastic and joyous and the sermon was very direct but loving. The gist - there is only ONE way to the Father and that is Jesus - our risen Saviour. (Have I mentioned that Jesus is Risen. ) :)

After church we joined some friends for lunch at the park. Everyone enjoyed the beautiful day, playing soccer, basketball, or riding bikes. It was a wonderful way to spend and Easter afternoon.

We pray you had a blessed day too.

Good Friday

2009-04-10T14:50:00.002-05:00

I just wanted to pop in and wish all our friends and family a very blessed Good Friday and Easter weekend. We wish we were closer to spend this very special time with you - so know that you are missed. It is exciting to know that because of the events we reflect upon today allows those of us that believe in Jesus Christ to be together forever and ever. Glory to His Name!!

I hope you have spent some time today remembering the sacrifice that was made for each and every one from the beginning to the end. God sent his only son, Jesus, to this old earth to be beaten, tormented and finally hanged on a cross - bearing all our sins. He did that for you and me!!! I am humbled today as I think on these things. What a perfect and amazing LOVE!

We have been going through our Holy Week reading guide each day. What a week!! I have received fresh wisdom and learned so much. We serve a great and mighty God who yet has a servant's and most loving heart. Jesus didn't want to go to the cross, but knew he was sent to fulfill God's plan. The flesh is very weak. Thankfully, God sent the Holy Spirit to be our Comforter until the return of Christ. Because I am in Christ, He is in me. I could go on and on.

So far I have been most impressed by the prayer that Jesus prays in John 17. It says he looked to heaven and began praying. He prayed first for his disciples, but then he prays for those to come. I get chills just thinking about Jesus praying for me. It is found in verse 20-26:

"I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us, that the world may believe that You sent Me. And the glory which You gave Me I have given them, that they may be one just as We are one: I in them, and You in Me; that they may be made perfect in one, and that the world may know that You have sent Me, and have loved them as You have loved Me. Father, I desire that they also whom You gave Me may be with Me where I am, that they may behold My glory which You have given Me; for You loved Me before the foundation of the world. O righteous Father! The world has not know You, but I have know You; and these have known that You sent Me. And I have declared to them Your name, and will declare it, that the love with which You loved Me may be in them, and I in them."

Have a blessed Good Friday!! Much love from our family to yours.

Weekend update

2009-04-07T13:44:00.004-05:00

I just wanted to post an Aldrich update.

We finished up Spring Break. Saturday we went to Starbuck's for breakfast. For some reason it was on Dylan's "things to do list". The boys enjoyed a yummy doughnut and Garth and I had our usual mochas. It was a beautiful morning so we sat outside and took in the sunshine for a bit. After breakfast we went downtown to the weekly Farmer's Market. It was so much fun. I can't wait to visit again. There were people there with fresh honey, fruit, veggies, and nu

ts. Others had fresh flowers and plants for sale. The best part was almost every booth had samples so we had the sweetest strawberries, delicious freshly squeezed oj, fresh walnuts, smoked salmon, raw cheese, and our first blood red orange. We all had a good time and of course had to pick up some delicious organic kettle corn. That was a hit with the boys. That night we met the Moore's for some yogurt at the infamous Yogurt Island and then hit the hay!!! By the way, we spent the entire day in the Jeep. (I had to get the ol' Expo an oil change.) It was great fun to dart around in the Jeep for the day.

Sunday we went to church to enjoy a wonderful Palm Sunday service. I LOVE Palm Sunday - the excitement and expectancy!!! The service was a bit different, but absolutely glorious. It was basically a total worship service - beautiful worship songs, communion, explanation of the purpose of our celebration, and ending with baptisms. You couldn't have asked for a more special way to share a Palm Sunday service. We had lunch with some friends at Rosa's and then headed to San Diego with our tour guides - the Moore's. We rode a trolley from a Fashion Village (come back in June Nissy, I found us a shopping spot) to downtown San Diego. We went right down by Petco Stadium and then walked around downtown. We found lots of neat looking restaurants to try and found a new mall to try out soon. It was a great way to end Spring Break.

Dylan started back to school yesterday. We were all a bit blah. I hated to have to get back into the routine of things. I can't believe in only 10 weeks I will have a second grader. It will go by fast I know. We signed Dylan up for flag football through the Boy's and Girl's club. The season doesn't actually start for a couple of weeks, but assessments were yesterday. Dylan had a great time. The little guy loves football - LOVES IT. I hope he has a fun time playing and if he really does love it, then I pray he gets some meat on those bones so he can really play in the future. I will post pictures and video as we compile it.

I also wanted to share a reading outline we received at church for this week. I know I am a couple of days behind in posting, but it is quick reading and you can catch up. Garth and I have enjoyed sharing this time together in the Bible before we go to bed. I hope you will share in the reading leading up to Easter.

Sunday

Matthew 21:1-11; Mark 11:1-11; Luke 19:28-44; John 12:12-19

Monday

Matthew 21:12-19; Mark 11:12-19; Luke 19:45-46; John 12:20-50

Tuesday

Matthew 21:20-26:2; Mark 11:20-14:2; Luke 19:47-21:38

Wednesday

Matthew 26:3-16; Mark 14:3-11; Luke 22:1-6; John 12:2-8

Thursday

Matthew 26:17-46; Mark 14:12-42; Luke 22:7-46; John 13:1-18:1

Friday

Matthew 26:47-27:61; Mark 14:43-15:47; Luke 22:47-23:56; John 18:2-19:42

Saturday

Matthew 27:62-66

Sunday

Matthew 28:1-15; Mark 16:1-18; Luke 24:1-49; John 20:1-23

We are planning a Seder meal for one day this week. We shared in one together a couple of years ago and we really want to do it again. It is like a tradition Jewish Seder meal, but with a Christian spin on things. It can be a really special time. We hope to someday be able to share it with our friends and family. If we do actually get in accomplished I will share pictures and how things went.

Well, enjoy this wonderful week. I know I am. I am really enjoying the anticipation leading up to Easter - more than normal. God is so good and we have much reason to celebrate.

PRAISE JESUS - HE IS RISEN!! GLORY TO HIS HOLY NAME!

Have a most blessed week.

By the way - Am I blessed or what? I just had to share these cute pictures from our Starbuck's breakfast!!

Sweet Potato Shepherds Pie

2009-04-03T18:18:00.002-05:00

http://glutenfreegoddess.blogspot.com/2008/09/sweet-potato-shepherds-pie-ranchers.html

I made this last night and Garth and I both liked it. I left out the artichokes. I'm not a big fan of those. If you like sweet potatoes I think, you will like this dish. If you make it, let me know what you think!!!

At WAR...

2009-04-03T17:51:00.001-05:00

With food, that is. About six weeks ago I decided I needed to change my diet. As you know I have battled RA for almost 10 years. I can't believe I was blessed with a new shoulder 7 years ago. Where does the time go? I look back and it seems as though my life is one big blur.

Anyways, I'm getting off track. I am taking baby steps to living a healthier lifestyle. I have read and done lots of research that suggests that a change in diet can calm the inflammation and reduce damage. I am taking lots of medication and always looking for a way to control this nemesis in a more natural way. I am praying about it and asking for direction to make good, healthy choices for my family and myself

. I am trying to avoid white flour, sugar, and any processed foods. We are not perfect, but I am doing what I can as I learn more info. I make what I can. For instance, I now make my own bread, salad dressings, salsa, and peanut butter. I also try to buy organic produce when I can. I limit the things in cans or boxes to necessities. I also look for alternatives to refined sugar. Garth also bought me a Vita-mix. That is a whole new world. I drink a "green smoothie" for breakfast. (More on that in later posts). I am not trying to lose weight, but I have lost about 10 lbs.

I thought this change would be hard, but it is actually fun. I love cooking with all the fresh veggies and the smell of fresh baked bread in my house. I have learned a lot from other's websites who have also gone to a more natural lifestyle. It really is just a return to a couple of generations back. Plant your garden and then cook what you grow or raise. Well, I'm not raising anything nor do I have a garden, but I am trying to make sure the things we do eat are nourishing to our body.

I have said all that to say that I will try to post things that I find of interest to me. My bro-in-law requested some recipes, so I will post the ones Garth and I enjoy. This is just info. You can take it or leave it, but it is always food for thought. For instance, get you some flax seeds DAD!! Those are easy to incorporate into your diet.

I'm looking forward to sharing my adventures to a new and healthier ME!!!

Too long....

2009-04-03T17:19:00.003-05:00

It has been far too long since I last posted a blog. I really need to do a better job at this. I'm sure many of you would agree.

We are enjoying our last few days of Spring Break. Dylan had two weeks off and I am actually dreading having to get back into the routine of things. We have had family and friends visit, a trip to the San Diego Zoo, and lots of fun at the parks.

To start our Spring Break, we had a quick visit from the Noble family. Garth and I go way back with these two. We actually met at their wedding for those who didn't know that fun bit of information. Their visit was short, but so fun. They had their two older children - Hannah and Josiah - with them. Dylan loved having their company. We ruined them with some Rock Band tunes, but everyone had a great time. I wish the visit could have been longer. The Noble family is very special to us and we wish we could see them more often. Till next time dear friends.....

As soon as they left, Dylan was ready to be entertained. By Tuesday he was running a fever and it lasted until Wednesday night. Lots of prayers went up for him and Jaydon both because Grammy, Granddad, Blake and Nissy were coming to town on Thursday. Thankfully, Jaydon never got sick. Praise Jesus!!!

My family arrived on Thursday and were able to stay until Tuesday. Friday we went to the zoo. It was a very tiring day, but I must say I really enjoyed watching the boys enjoy the animals and watching my parents and Blake and Nissy enjoy time with the boys. Dylan was reading the signs and telling us about the animals and Jaydon was running around the zoo really loving anything in the water. (I think I need to take the boy to an aquarium.) Saturday we headed up to Iddywild. It is a cute little mountain town about an hour away. We enjoyed some lunch out on the patio in the warm sun. We headed back down so the boys could play some tennis. The next couple of days were kind of just hang out days. The boys enjoyed playing with Puppy and Dylan had fun playing Wii with Uncle Blake. It was great having them all here and I sorely miss them now. Thanks for taking the time to come out guys!!! We love and miss you all.

These next couple of days we have spent with some friends. I took the boys miniature golfing, to the park, and off to play tennis on Wednesday. On Thursday we met up with the same family to go to another park and decorate cookies and have an easter egg hunt. (I think my friend wins Mom of the Year). Thanks to the Moore's for the entertainment the last couple of days.

Today I had a fun doctor's appointment and the boys got to play with some buddies. I only had to get stuck three times this time to get the IV started (compared to eight last time - that's an improvement). Dylan has read me a book and is playing Rock Band now and Jaydon is taking a nap.

Hopefully we will come up with something fun to finish out the break. If we do, I'll be sure and let you know.

Pictures of Dylan

2009-03-10T14:28:00.001-05:00

Personal Best

2009-03-10T13:50:00.001-05:00

I just finished folding some laundry - not put up, just folded. (Yep, Dad, on the kitchen table again, but this is a new load.) I would rather take the time to brag about Dylan instead of marching upstairs to put away laundry. Priorities, people, priorities. :)

We had a proud moment as parents yesterday. Dylan received an award at the school's 2nd trimester awards ceremony. He was presented the "Personal Best" award and a gift certificate to eat at Claim Jumper. The following is the little blip that was said about him for receiving the award:

Dylan is very deserving of Room 17's Personal Best award. His outstanding effort in all academic areas is an example to his classmates. He approaches every challenge with a smile and a can-do attitude. Dylan takes his time on each assignment and, as a result, consistently produces beautiful work. We have enjoyed watching Dylan blossom in first grade. Congratulations, Dylan!

I spoke to Dylan's teacher after school and she said he wrote, "Today is the best day of my life" in his journal. I think he was pretty excited. He is looking forward to Garth's return so we can go eat at Claim Jumper.

We are so proud of Dylan's accomplishment. He has come a long way from the first day of school. We are so glad that he is respectful and hard working at school. (We don't always get that from him here at home, but I think that is kind of normal.) It is so much fun watching him learn and grow in so many different areas. Keep up the great work Dylan. We are so proud to call you our son.

Morning Conversation

2009-03-06T15:06:00.002-06:00

This is a side note - Dylan can tie his shoes!!! This is a huge milestone. He is so proud he can do it by himself and no longer needs to be helped. Way to go Dylan.

This morning as we are trying to get ready for school Dylan struck up one of those conversations that leaves you stuttering at a parent. He had many questions about God and heaven. I was so happy he was so inquisitive about it all, but there are just some questions that are tough to answer in a 7 year old's language.

D: If my body goes in the ground when I die, how will I go see Jesus?

M: Your body and bones stay in the ground, but your spirit goes to be with Jesus.

D: Huh?

M: You are made up of more than just bones and skin, you have a spirit too. Kinda like a ghost, but not a ghost. (Jesus help me.)

D: Will I have skin in heaven? What about hair?

M: We will be perfect.

D: Will God have lots of balls in heaven? I want to run and play football all the time. Do you think God will play football with me?

M: I'm sure God would love to play football with you. You will be the best football player in all of heaven I am sure.

D: I wish we could have running shoes, but I think we will have to wear sandals.

M: Who knows?

D: The devil is bad and he has bad angels. Why is he bad?

M: (The explanation of the fall of Satan as simplistic as possible.)

D: So the devil won't be in heaven?

M: No, he won't.

D: I think I will just kill the devil.

M: We can't kill the devil. Only God can defeat the devil.

D: God is the toughest of all. Why doesn't God go ahead and kill him already???

M: Good question. God has a perfect plan and will take care of the devil when the time is right.

D: I'm glad I will get to see my friends and teachers and family in heaven.

M: If they love Jesus and ask Him into their heart then you will. That is why we pray for those who don't know God. So they can.

D: There won't be any bad guys in heaven.

M: No, no bad guys.

D: THERE WILL BE FREEDOM IN HEAVEN.

Jesus, please continue to teach me so that I can teach my children. And help us all to remember that there is FREEDOM in YOU. Amen.

Things I'll MIss????

2009-03-06T13:38:00.002-06:00

I stepped into the shower the other night only to realize I had been joined by the Hulk and a G.I. Joe guy. Dylan had played with them while in the shower and failed to get them out when he was done. Go figure!!! So, this got me thinking about things the boys do now that I wish they wouldn't, but as they grow older I will probably miss it or be able to laugh about it. The following is my list in no particular order:

1. Taking a shower with multiple action heros. (I should feel honored to be graced with their presence, I know.)

2. Running a quick errand, but having to get out two children, a cup of milk, a large filthy blanket, and a bucket of many, many Star Wars guys. (How do I do that with one good arm?)

3. Our living room looking like a Toys r Us continually. (Come on over - we'll sell you something.)

4. Children knocking on our door many times through the day. (My boys are stars in their own little world.)

5. A seven year old sleeping in our room. (One of those things you say will never happen, and it has now for many years.)

6. Playing at the park and taking off shoes on freshly vacuumed carpet only to discover there is enough sand for a sand box in the back yard. (Often times there is just as much in the diaper.)

7. My little helpers in the kitchen. (Patience, patience, patience.)

8. Finding all my clothes on the floor in my closet because the closet is a great place to hide in an exciting hide and seek game.

9. Hearing the word MOM, Mommy, mamma, or any other variation of the word about a bazillion times a day.

Thank you God that you blessed me with such wonderful little creations so I am able to experience only those things people called moms are able to experience. (I figured I had better give some thanks to help outweigh all the complaining I do about them.) :) Hey, gotta be real here.

Just tired.......

2009-02-19T13:42:00.003-06:00

I love this picture - one minute Jaydon was playing his little heart out and the next, I found him propped over on the chair asleep.

We do the same thing. We go, go, go and the next thing we know we are surprised with exhaustion. Just accomplishing the every day tasks of life will wear you out. BUT, in today's world we are worn by so much more - the economy, wars and rumors of wars, death, disease, heartache, broken marriages, ect. The list could go on and on and if you don't deal with all the issues, I am sure you are affected by a handful.

I was at my Bible study yesterday and Beth Moore spoke on Isaiah 40:31. It says -

"but those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."

I love this verse. I claim it as my own. However, I think I got a fresh revelation about it and want to share. Beth went on to say that too often we are waiting for circumstances to change, an event to take place, a "thing" to happen, a person to do "such-and-such." We get tired in the waiting game and end up feeling more exhausted in this life. That is because we care called to WAIT ON THE LORD not the before mentioned list. If we can wrap our head and hearts around that then we will no longer feel exhausted by life and its circumstances, but energized because we are waiting on the Lord. If we wait in His presence then He will give us wings to fly, the ability to run, and the grace to walk in HIM.

I just wanted to share. I hope this blesses you and you have a fresh revelation of God's Word. If not, thanks for listening to my ramblings.

"For the revelation awaits an appointed time, it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay." Habakkuk 2:3

A Long Weekend with Granddad and Grammy

2009-02-17T13:34:00.003-06:00

My parents came into town last weekend. It was great having them here. Every morning since they lest Jaydon wakes up and inquires about Grammy, her house, and something about an airplane. Last night he saw a puppy on tv and said something to the effect of "Grammy, Granddad, Puppy - hold me." We all know if they were here holding would not be Jaydon's desires. He is a big ham.

Anyways, we didn't do too much the first couple of days. Dylan had school on Friday and informed us that we could have no fun while he was gone - only drink hot chocolate, coffee and poop on the toilet like old people. (Seriously - that is what he told us.) Where does he come up with this stuff? So we had no fun on Friday. At least until he got home. My parents watched the boys for us so Garth and I could go out - ALONE!! We almost forgot what that was like. We didn't even do anything that fun and exciting, except get out of the car in 2 seconds and back in about that quickly. What a freeing feeling!!! I know, it doesn't take that much for Garth and I. We did go to dinner and got to sit at a table for 2. How nice.

It rained the entire time they were here so we headed up to Big Bear to find some snow. California is big on snow chains around here - GOT CHAINS??? No, but I have a 4x4 Expedition. That is another story. Big Bear was beautiful. We stopped and had some yummy pizza and then found the boys a sled hill. It is a place I was glad to see, but hope to have the chance to go back and explore some more. On the way home, we make a stop at Bass Pro Shop. I think the boys enjoyed that as much as Big Bear and the snow.

The rain hampered our activity, but we did make it down to La Jolla to see the seals. It was cold and very windy, but the landscape was lovely and the seals were abundant. It was well worth the drive for the crab cake sandwiches we had down in Point Loma.

It was fun having my parents here. The boys had a great time playing with Puppy and Jaydon hi-yahed Granddad a few million times.

We are looking forward to their visit again in March, hopefully accompanied by my sis and bro-in-law.

Death and Life

2009-02-17T13:18:00.001-06:00

The end of January is a blur.

January 29th we received a phone call letting us know Garth's grandmother had passed away. We got him on a plane to Albuquerque to be with his mom and family during the tough time. He stayed the weekend helping in the ways he could, and he also got to see his Dad for a bit. We got him back Sunday, February 1st. He was then right back into some intense, long training days at Camp Pendleton.

January 30th was a milestone in our lives - our big 10 year anniversary. We did it!!! I don't know why it feels like such an accomplishment, but it does. Anyone who knows us at all, knows that it hasn't been the most wonderful wedded bliss. We have certainly had our fair share of trials, but it has also been so much fun. Best of all I got to share some of the neatest experiences with my best friend. I am so thankful we have each other and have been blessed with our two wonderful boys. I am looking forward to where the Lord's path carries us the next 10 years. Buckle your seat belts.

A bit of of our MX Dylan......

2009-01-18T20:50:00.002-06:00

This is at Lake Elsinore MX park today.

More lessons from my boys......

2009-01-09T22:56:00.003-06:00

I sometimes think that the only reason God blessed me with children is because He can use them as a teaching tool.

Today I was upstairs putting away some laundry and made a pit stop to the restroom. Jaydon was downstairs playing, but as all moms know, as soon as you hit the toilet someone decides they need you NOW. So I soon began to hear the beckoning. "MOM!!! MOM!!!! MOM!!!" I yelled back, "Jaydon, I'm upstairs." This went on a few times. However, I realized that every time I yelled back, he was yelling "MOM" at the same time and couldn't hear me tell him where I was. Finally he stopped yelling long enough to hear me tell him I was upstairs. As soon as he heard me, he calmed down and stopped yelling and came upstairs.

Isn't it funny how sometimes we get important insight in the restroom (or at least I do). As this vocal bantering was occurring between mom and son, I began to hear my Father. I do the same thing as His daughter. "GOD!!! GOD!!! GOD!!! Where are you? What is going on here, what do I do? Why is this happening to me? GOD!!! WHERE ARE YOU????" I am spending so much time yelling, worrying, fretting, questioning etc. that I don't stop carrying on long enough to hear Him. To hear God say, "I'm right here. I've got you. Everything is going to be fine. Just come this way and I will lead you through......" God wants us to call on Him. He wants us to tell Him what is bothering us and concerning us and ask for His help and direction. But sometimes I think God desires for us to be still and know that He is GOD. Be quiet, be still and just listen to Him. Listen to the words of peace and comfort He has to impart. Listen to the direction He wants to lead.

Dear Lord, please help me to seek you in all things, but learn to be quiet long enough to hear your voice. Amen

Till the next restroom lesson.......... Blessings!!

Christmas 2008

2009-01-06T20:36:00.002-06:00

We are back in the swing of things now. Garth is back at work, Dylan is back to school and Jaydon and I are trying to figure out how to entertain each other.

We had a great Christmas this year. We began the festivities with opening the gifts under our tree the Sunday before Christmas. After that fun, it was time to pack up for our flight to TX. The boys did great on the plane. We had a fun week in TX seeing everyone and celebrating the very special Christmas season. It was hard to leave, but knowing my parents will be here in Feb. made it easier to get on that plane back to CA.

We rang the new year in with some friends here in town. Everyone wore their pajamas and all the kids crashed around 9:30 pm. We adults enjoyed some Wii play and then watched this very funny Christian comedian. Surprisingly, we made it to about 1:00 am. We never ring in the new year. It was an enjoyable evening.

Now, its just back to the grind.

We hope you had a very blessed Christmas and happy new year!!!

Happy New Year

2008-12-31T11:29:00.004-06:00

The Aldrich Family wishes you a very Happy and Blessed New Year.

Thanksgiving Grandparent Visit #2

2008-12-12T16:36:00.004-06:00

We were doubly blessed with with grandparents for Thanksgiving. Garth's mom, Susan, got here Wednesday and stayed through early Saturday morning. We enjoyed Wednesday evening with a fun meal at a local diner and topped it off with Starbucks. Good stuff. Thursday was Thanksgiving of course. Dylan and Grandma Sue enjoyed the morning taking a walk around the neighborhood (in the rain) and visiting the local Walmart for a few extra special goodies. This was my first time to do Thanksgiving at our house. I didn't do a turkey. I don't know how and with just us, I didn't want to have to deal with all the left overs. I did pull off a pretty good meal though. I have a long way to go to live up to my Grandmother Side's feast. It was still tasty and enjoyable. We spent the rest of the day doing what you do on Thanksgiving. Sports, Sports, Sports. Friday Garth, the boys and Grandma Sue went to the beach to see the ocean. I was told they had a fun time. I, on the other hand, went shopping. I got plenty accomplished and so enjoyed my kid-free shopping day. Thank you Garth and Susan. What a treat for me. Saturday came and Grandma Sue was gone. It was great having her here in our home and watching her have a special time with the boys. Come again soon, Susan!!!

Thanksgiving Grandparent Visit #1

2008-12-12T14:57:00.005-06:00

The weekend before Thanksgiving, we were blessed to have my parents come for a visit. It was a quick visit, but no matter how long the stay, it always seems to go too fast.

To kick the stay off, we prepared a Thanksgiving dinner. When I say we, I really mean Grammy. She would get something started and then out to play soccer with Dylan or watch him play football with Granddad. We enjoyed a yummy meal complete with dressing and pumpkin roll. Friday, they received a quick glimpse of Garth's workplace - Camp Pendleton. On to Saturday which was a day of watching the boys ride. We went out to Lake Elsinore MX park and watched Garth and Dylan ride and enjoyed some hamburgers cooked on our new Weber portable grill (the best investment in a long time). It was all of a sudden, Sunday, and time to take them to the airport. It was great having them here and watching them enjoy the boys.

Donald Who???

2008-12-12T13:45:00.003-06:00

A very quick Dylan story to share. A new student arrived in his class yesterday morning. I had to pick Dylan up early for a dental appointment and on the way to the car, I was inquiring about the new little boy. He told me he thought he was from Canada (who knows) and that he was really nice. When I asked his name, Dylan said, "Donald..... you know, like Donald Goose." True story.

Goodnight Tahoe.......

2008-11-30T18:10:00.004-06:00

We have had a busy couple of weeks. My parents came out the weekend before Thanksgiving and Garth's mom left yesterday after spending Thanksgiving with us. I hope to sit down and write about our visits shortly, but at this time I just wanted to note a loss to the Aldrich Family.

Tahoe was put to sleep yesterday. After some tests and x-rays, it was determined that he was very sick and best if he was put to sleep.

From the mouths of Babes.... OR 7 year olds!

2008-11-17T14:01:00.004-06:00

I just wanted to post a couple of things today.

First I have a couple of Dylan stories. The other day at school, his teacher approached me and said she had a story to tell me. I braced myself and listened. She said Dylan asked another 1st grade teacher if she knew that Obama was the new President. She said, "Yes! Are you just so excited that he is our new President?" Without hesitation, Dylan responded with, "NO!! I am a Republican!" I have to tell you that is a pretty proud moment in a parent's life! :) He may not always be conservative, but at least he claims it now and is telling the masses.

Story #2: Last night, Dylan was telling me about the songs he sang in worship at sunday school. I told him that I recognized them and we sang those songs in church too. He went on to share that he doesn't sit down during worship, but stands up and sings to Jesus as loud as he can. I found that to be so sweet. After baths, he and Garth broke out the guitar and had a worship session. I actually caught a bit on tape. It is so sweet to hear worship from your child's mouth. I hope the video works and you can hear him sing too, it will do your heart good.

I just posted a picture of Jaydon with some ice cream. Little kids and ice cream cones are so darn cute.

Till next time - Blessings!

The Last Republican

2008-11-04T08:27:00.002-06:00

Rated "R" for Republican - Read at your own risk!

This time change has thrown us for a loop. Jaydon especially. He goes to bed at his regular bedtime, but wakes up at 6 a.m. instead of 7 a.m. I say that to explain why I can be blogging this morning. We're all up an hour too early.

I don't have much time because I do have to actually get dressed this morning to go to MOPS, but I wanted to share something.

Today is election day. (I just thought I would share in case someone has been out of the loop the last couple of years.) And I'm anxious about it. The Bible says be anxious about nothing, so I keep telling myself, "God is in control. God is in control." Even if he turns his back to this nation, he will not turn his back on me. Thank you God.

Garth and I were talking about the election last night as we were going to bed. He is at peace (by no means likes it) with everything because he resolved early on that Obama will probably win and has been mentally preparing for that fate. I, on the other hand, am more of an optimist and refuse to resign to that outcome until all votes are counted. At least until today - I still have hope - hope in the place I live, the nation I call great, the nation I love and, most of all, hope in the citizens of American. My hope is diminishing though. I am in disbelief at the number of Americans that can cast a vote for Obama and what he stands for. McCain is by no means perfect and I don't agree with everything he says or says he will do, but Obama is in a whole other league. His views and ideas are so skewed from anything this country has ever stood for.

I finally said, "Where are the normal people? Are there no more conservative, God fearing, Republicans (people) in the world today? That is why we have no friends. How can so many people vote for Obama and what he brings to the table? How come so many people in CA can vote No on 8 which allows the state to recognize same-sex marriages?" Thats when it hit me!!! Sadly, we are THE LAST REPUBLICANS. We had a good laugh coming up with ideas for our feature film with that title. So be on the look out for the next major film accomplishment called THE LAST REPUBLICAN!! (Not to be confused with THE LAST MOHICAN.) I'm sure a few will be able to identify.

Have a blessed election day!

McCain for President! (Just not ready to let go yet.) ;)

Grandparent visit, Birthday, Pumpkin Carving!!

2008-10-27T14:08:00.006-05:00

Lots to catch up on.

My parents came for a visit last weekend. It was great to see them (and Puppy) and spend time with them. There was really no down time while they were here. They came in Thursday and we spent the day at Legoland on Friday, Saturday was Dylan's b-day party, and Sunday we went to church and then to Julian, and Monday it was back to the airport.

We had a great time at Legoland. It is the perfect place to go for those with kiddos in elementary school or younger. The park was filled with young families

and grandparents. It was great. Dylan had a fun time. He rode his first roller coaster!! I hope to go back when Jaydon is a bit older.

Dylan celebrated his birthday with a Motocross party. He had a few boys from his class come over to help celebrate. His favorite gifts that day were his TX longhorn jersey, R/C motocross bike, and his tons of dollars from Blake and Nissy. His creative uncle and aunt taped $20 together and Dylan thinks he is rolling in the dough. :) Grammy made the coolest cake with some direction, of course, from Dylan. It was so fun for me to have the little boys over and watch them interact together. We played games and had pizza and cake. We missed having so many of our loved ones here to help us celebrate, but thank you all for your gifts and sweet birthday wishes.

After church Sunday, we went to Julian, CA. It is known for its apples. For the next couple of months it has an apple festival on the weekends. It is a cute, quaint town. It was really busy, but still so fun to experience. We had apple pie and bought a couple of carmel apples. It was so fun watching Jaydon eat the carmel apple.

The time came quickly to say goodbye to my parents, as it always does. We hope to see them again soon.

Yesterday, we took Dylan out to Lake Elsinore to ride his bike. He started on his Honda, but thankfully, it got a flat and he had to get on his KTM to continue riding. He went from a bit timid on the bike, to having more confidence and wanting to ride the KTM. We just need to make a point to get him more seat time. He is too good and enjoys it to much, not too.

We (really Garth) carved our pumpkins last night. He is so creative. One is just a traditional jack-o-lantern, but the other Dylan wanted to be a FOX pumpkin. So, daddy came though and we now have a FOX pumpkin. Too cool!! I even roasted the pumpkin seeds. Yummy!

I think that gets you caught up on our lives. There are so many little details like - I got a haircut for the first time in 5 months, we had sushi last night, and someone had the nerve to take my McCain/Palin sign (don't get me started on that one!).

Well, thats it for now. We are still missing our family and dear friends, but know we are adjusting and doing well. Blessings to you all.

Pumpkin Patch

2008-10-12T16:18:00.004-05:00

Dishwasher Uses

2008-10-08T16:33:00.004-05:00

There have been many times I have wanted to sit down and blog about something, but I just couldn't get myself to sit down and do it!!! So because of that I will give you a snapshot of what you have missed because of my laziness.

1. I am now a coffee drinker. I know - I can't believe it either. I like those iced coffees. Especially the iced vanilla coffee from McDonald's of all places. I have started making a version of them at the house to save Garth's hard earned $. I also enjoy mochas. We even bought an espresso maker, so we could make them ourselves. If it ever gets below 90 degrees around here, I think I will enjoy using it.

2. I enjoy a good walk or jog. I used to hate working out. Something about our coach dropping us off 2 miles from the school and then driving behind us telling us to pick it up - that just steals the joy. Now I get joy in a good 2-3 mile walk or jog. Maybe it has something to do with my health. I don't know how long I have to be active, so I may as well enjoy it now. I also think I am a better wife and mom because I take a few minutes out of the day to do something for myself.

3. I can't believe the nature of our dinner conversations now. I never thought I would be at a point in my life where I was truly concerned with a presidential election and the state of the economy. I obviously have always wanted the best for the country and the economy, but I never imagined that I would be discussing the topics of the day. On that note - we have a McCain/Palin sign in our yard. I'm really not that type of in your face, let everyone know what I think person, but I just feel this election is too important. Unless things change, it appears Obama is the winner, but I am at peace (I never said I liked it or wouldn't do my share of complaining) because of the following:

Psalm 2:10-12

Now then, you kings, act wisely!

Be warned, you rulers of the earth!

Serve the Lord with reverent fear,

and rejoice with trembling.

Submit to God's royal son, or he will become angry,

and you will be destroyed in the midst of all your activities-

for his anger flares up in an instant.

But what joy for all who take refuge in him!

The words to cling to are - But what joy for all who take refuge in him! No matter what happens in this old world, we are called to cling to him - Jesus Christ!

Enough of the catch up blogging. There were many other topics and thoughts, but I will save those for another day.

My real reason for this post is how the uses of your dishwasher change when you have a toddler. Today my dishwasher has been a dishwasher, a zoo for a giraffe, a landing strip for an airplane and a race track for a car. Oh the joys!!! These pics show the dishwasher play and Jaydon using a tape recorder as a camera to take a pic of me. Cheese, Mom!!

Mission Accomplished

2008-09-14T16:50:00.007-05:00

We went camping this weekend!!

I know it is hard to believe, so I will give you a few moments to digest that little bit of information.

Times up!!!

Saturday we traveled about 45 minutes to La Jolla Indian Campground. It was so neat to drive such a short distance, but feel like we were in a different part of the country. We went with a couple who live on our street - Eryn and Josh. We arrived around 11:30 am and got everything set up. Our campsite was right on the river. Everything looked so cute set up in the trees with the river flowing behind it. The boys loved playing in the water, and it was refreshing to listen to it go by. After a bite of lunch, we rented a couple of tubes and Dylan had a blast tubing

down the river. Jaydon enjoyed throwing rocks and sticks in the "wa-wa". For the rest of the afternoon we sat around and talked and Dylan rode his bike and played with Eryn. Thankfully Jaydon got in a nap. As evening approached we lit up Josh's gas grill and our camp stove and had steak and mac-n-cheese for dinner. It was very tasty, except these little bugs were attracted to our light and they kept falling in our food. So, we just ate very quickly and I'm sure got a little extra protein. As it began to get dark, we realized the showers just up from us had no lights, so we decided we could rough it for one night and passed on showers. We were all filthy, especially the boys. Dirty faces and dirty feet. (They got a quick baby wipe bath.)

Finally, the part of the trip everyone was looking forward too. The campfire. We broke out the glow sticks. Glow sticks are a favorite of Dylan's. They work out great though because we can totally see where he is in the dark when he is playing with them. We roasted a few marshmallows and had some s'mores, of course. Dylan and Jaydon began fading, so we put out the fire and got everyone tucked in for a good nights sleep.

WRONG!! Dylan and Jaydon were out all night, which was great. They were snug in our cold weather sleeping bags. We thought the sound of the flowing river would be good white noise, but it turned out to be a bit too loud. I had to get up twice to pee. (Its the pits being a woman sometimes.) The worst part though was that I could not get warm. I had on long sleeves and flannel pants with a sheet and a blanket, but I was freezing. My feet were freezing and I could not get warm. Finally I decided I would put Garth's lounge pants on too. That didn't help much. Then I thought I would try to steal Garth's body heat by snuggling, but that didn't help much either and for some reason he wasn't too excited about my freezing feet on his warm body. :)

Finally morning arrived (about 7:00 am). Garth cooked us up some bacon and I fixed some eggs. That was the end of the trip. We got everything broke down and packed up and made the short drive home.

After unloading everything, starting laundry (had to wash the blankie, for sure), and washing so

me dishes - everyone headed for the showers!!! AAAHHHHH!!! Nice hot showers. Clean bodies, hair, and teeth. This is the life!!!

Camping was a blast, even with the filth and sleeplessness. We hope to go again soon, maybe even for two nights!! Enjoy the pictures.

Well......

2008-09-10T12:47:00.003-05:00

It has been a while since I last blogged, so I thought I should get something down before I get harassed.

Not too much exciting new to report with the Aldrich family. All the boys have been dealing with croup. Dylan got it last week and then Jaydon and Garth both had it over the weekend. We were hoping to go on our first camping trip, but obviously that was postponed due to sick boys. Hopefully, we can go this weekend. It should be interesting since the most camping I have done is in an RV. And I consider roughing it if my dad doesn't turn the heater on in the RV. I'm sure I can brave the elements for a couple of days. Besides Dylan is so excited about the thought of camping. I will definitely post pictures and details later if we get the chance to go.

Garth is well. His only complaint really right now is his commute to and from work. He has to get up at least by 5 am every morning and then it takes him about an hour to get home in the evening. He doesn't like it, but we appreciate him making the sacrifice so we can live here in Temecula and allow Dylan to go to one of the best schools. Thanks, honey.

Dylan is still adjusting to school. This week he is Student of the Week. He gets to be line leader, take up attendance, etc. Mon. and Tues. were no cry days, but today I left him with a few tears. I was hoping things were better. He has made a new friend named Louie. That has to help things a bit. He still loves riding his bike, skateboard, and scooter. He has found a new love for drawing and coloring. It is really neat to watch it develop. It has been too hot to ride MX, but hopefully we will return to that soon. We love watching him ride.

Jaydon is two now. I took him for his 2 year check up and he was 31 lbs. and 35 1/2 in. He is still a big boy - in the 80%. He enjoys playing with his toys and going to the park. He really likes to read books. He will bring me a book and say "Iwanttoread". He will run in the other room and sit down and we enjoy some book time. He is also becoming a parrot. He repeats alot that is said. For instance, this morning he was watching Dora the Explorer and at the end they sing "We did it." He chimed right in singing and dancing. He also loves watching Sesame Street. We love Elmo. It is so fun watching him grow and develop. It needs to be though, because it has to make up for the times he can be just a nasty 2 year old. :)

Well that is all I have to report for now. The weather is beginning to cool off now. You almost need a jacket most evenings, but the days are still nice, sunny, and warm. On that note, I do want to mention my pals in Corpus. IKE is headed their way and they are getting ready to evacuate at I type. We are praying for them and their safety. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Till next time.....

2008-08-28T23:58:00.002-05:00

I was on my walk to pick up Dylan from school and for some odd reason I began thinking about the pine cones I was passing. You see part of the landscaping around where we live is lined with some sort of pine tree. I've seen lots of pine cones in my life time, but today I became curious of how a pine cone was formed. I pondered on that for a few moments and then my thought process moved me to another thought. I began looking at the tall, green trees and brightly colored flowers. This took me to how trees, plants, flowers, etc. get their start.

As seeds. They all start out as tiny, ugly seeds. But with time, sunshine, water, and proper care they grow into creations for us to enjoy. (I know you know where this is going, but let me speak my peace so I can retire to the bed.) As for us (humans), we don't normally think of growing leading to beauty, we just think of wrinkles, more love handles, and less hair. However, in our spiritual walk, we could say that we start out as seeds. We recognize we need Christ as our Saviour and become that seed ready to be nurtured and grow. Most things in nature become more attractive as they grow. I think this is how God looks at us. He loves us and enjoys us, however, I believe He does more so when we grow and mature in Him. We become a beautiful, landscaped walkway with colorful aromatic flowers for Him to walk along and enjoy for His pleasure. In the Bible He calls us His bride for goodness sakes. There is not a more beautiful picture than a bride on her wedding day. So without getting too deep, I'll leave it at that. I believe I have been called to grow. He has called all His children to grow in Him. So, I will resign to allow my Gardener to pick and snip (with as much joy as I can possibly muster up) and I will GROW along the way. I can't wait for Jesus to walk along and take a sniff and pick me from His garden because I bring Him pure pleasure. I hope you will prayerfully do the same and He can arrange us in a beautiful boquet for His enjoyment.

By the way, I also found out how pine cones grow. If you don't know, give it a read. Just another indication of just how great God is!!!

Rambling thoughts

2008-08-26T13:53:00.002-05:00

Jaydon is having lunch. A hotdog and some fruit (today is pineapple) constitute a yummy lunch for him lots of days. Don't judge me too harshly. He's enjoying it. Besides why cook up a bunch of stuff when its just me and him at lunchtime? Enough about that.

Today I actually got to drop Dylan off at school with NO tears. Yep, none. Yesterday was really tough. He got himself so worked up that the school nurse called and said she had him in her office. Are you kidding me??? Needless to say that is where he stayed until he calmed down and back to class he went. His teacher Mrs. Moore had lunch with him (even shared her Reese's PB cup) and played on the playground with him. She has to be a buddy for life now. She sacrificed a Reese's. So I'm sure those events of yesterday and lots of prayer from me and those who have known about the situation led to a calm morning. Hopefully the rest of the day followed suit and he can have a great 2nd week of 1st grade.

We walk to school every morning. I really enjoy it. When Dylan isn't crying it gives us a chance to talk a bit before he gets to school. After school we are able to recap the day before homework or TV or whatever he gets into when he gets home. The weather is also great. It cools off at night, so the mornings are so pleasant. Everything is green and landscaped beautifully and every direction you look, you can see mountains. (Not Rocky Mountains, but plenty mountains for a TX girl). Anyways, in the morning after I drop Dylan off I have been trying to find me a route to walk to get a bit of exercise before returning home. (Garth bought me the coolest stroller. Anyone with little ones needs it.) So yesterday, I tried a new route but decided it wasn't long enough. Today I got ambitious and went a different way. It kicked my rear and I wasn't even running. It is very hilly here so about the time you get confident a hill rears its ugly head. Nevertheless, I think I will attempt it again tomorrow.

We have found a great church - Calvary Chapel Bible Fellowship. It is set in the wine country of Temecula. The backdrop of the stage is windows so often I find myself watching the butterflies or humming birds fly among the foliage. The pastor is a wonderful teacher. He teaches verse by verse. I thought I wouldn't like it or get much out of it at first, but I have to say I was wrong. I am learning so much and really enjoy grasping a better understanding if God's Word, the Bible. Besides really why would it be boring, it is the LIVING Word of God. I am really praying that I will grow in the Lord during this time in Cali. It has really been on my heart the last little while to learn to die to me and be open to Him. Yuck!! But, I do want that to be my heart's DESIRE. So, I will continue to pray about that subject and watch the Lord work. Got off on a tangent - sorry. The Women's Bible study starts back up in October and I am looking forward to attending it. Hopefully that will be a way to get better plugged in and meet people.

My sister called me last night to let me know they had booked flights to come visit us. They are coming the end of September. I am so excited. It is also humbling to know they are willing to spend the money and take the time to come and see us. I know the boys will really enjoy the visit. They love their Blake and Nissy 0r as Jaydon calls them Gay or Gake and Issy. How could they not -- they are great and we love them dearly.

Well that's all the rambling I have for now. It is a great outlet to speak my mind when I don't have anyone here to speak it to or want to bore Garth with my nonsense ramblings.

Thanks for listening. We love and miss you all.

First tooth

2008-08-24T19:19:00.003-05:00

Dylan experienced a major milestone in his life today. He lost his first tooth. He realized he had a loose tooth about three weeks ago, and he has been so excited about the thought of finally losing it. After much wiggling and agonizing over whether it would hurt or not, he let Garth pull it today after church. How fitting to lose your first tooth at church. He was so proud and went around showing anyone who was brave enough to look at a hole in his mouth. He now h

as a gigantic tooth coming up in its place and it is nudging out another tooth. I'm sure he will have another fall out soon.

Our cute little boy is now entering that "not so cute" stage of life. I can say that because I'm his mom. He has HUGE teeth trying to come up in a little mouth. The orthodontics industry will love us I know. Oh, well. It happens to the best of us. Garth and I both had braces, so it is not surprising that Dylan will have to have them too.

I'm also including a few pictures of our house. A few of you have requested that we share.

Two BIG Events....

2008-08-18T14:04:00.003-05:00

Jaydon is now TWO!! We can't believe how quickly these two years have gone. He is definitely a one-of-a-kind. He is running around and talking. He tries to do everything Dylan does. He speaks with one volume level and it is loud. He loves motorcycles. Actually he likes to play with anything that has wheels. Rarely is he without a toy in each hand. Like his big brother he has a special blanket he can't do without. His favorite word is "NO". He doesn't like it when people get in his space. He likes life to happen on his terms. He can throw a serious tantrum. He has the bluest eyes and the cutest chubby cheeks. Most importantly God gave Jaydon to us, and we feel so blessed to be his parents. We have so enjoyed watching him grow these first two years and look forward to watching many, many more. You are SO loved, Jaydon.

Now to Dylan. Today is his first day of First Grade. Craziness!!! We can't believe we have a 2 year old and a 1st grader. Last

night he was so excited. He could hardly sit still and Garth and I chuckled when we overheard him say - "I love school." We'll see how he feels as the years click by. He got ready this morning and the nerves were showing. I can't blame him. I was a bit n

ervous myself. A brand new school, kids, teachers. Everything different from what we know. We loaded Jaydon in the stroller and he got on his scooter and off to school we went. There were people everywhere. We found his class and met his teachers. He

introduced himself and sat at his seat and began coloring. He was really pretty cool. I stayed for a bit and forced myself to leave him in strangers hands for the day. Jaydon wasn't too excited to leave him. As we left I felt better though because I heard him telling one of his teachers he

was a MX racer. It didn't take him long to get in his element and start the stories. We walked back home and all I knew to do was pray for him. If I can't be with him, I need to know that Jesus is. This parenting thing just doesn't seem to get any easier.

Its just Jaydon and I at home now and boy is it quite. I'm glad for the break from Dylan, but today 3:20 can't come fast enough. We'll keep you posted on the school happenings.

UPDATE!!

2008-08-02T21:43:00.008-05:00

The boys are glued to the television right now. The X-games MX is on so there are lots of ooohhhs and aaaahhhs coming from the couch. They are all so cute. Jaydon is holding tight to a toy motorcycle and enjoying the action as well.

I just wanted to catch everyone up on the week -

Wednesday, Garth participated in a Change of Command ceremony. It was really neat (and different) to experience. There was very much a Marine influence. It was rewarding however to watch my husband stand with pride in front of his company. So far he is enjoying the different elements of this duty station. As Garth would say, "OORAH!"

Dylan likes to inform me that his Dad is the BOSS of all those people.

The evenings cool off and it makes it really nice to be outside here. We usually play in the backyard or go for a walk. The boys have discovered a skateboard park near the house, so on some evenings Garth and Dylan will go "rip it up" and Jaydon and I will play at the park nearby. Dylan has so much fun skateboarding with his dad. He is getting alot better and much more confident. He has started "dropping in" and is very proud of himself. He wanted to make sure I saw his new skills before we left the park. Garth has a good time too. He likes to relive the good ol' days, but seems to take it a bit easier now. He understands the body doesn't heal as easily as is used too. He still enjoys riding with his boy.

Today we took Dylan to Starwest MX track in Perris. He got to ride on a 50's track and built up some lost confidence. He still isn't riding to his potential, but he had FUN today. We all did. It was great to see him enjoying riding his bike and increasing confidence. There was lots of clapping and thumbs up going on. Jaydon was a great cheerleader, yelling "GO, Dee,Dee!!!" and clapping as Dylan would ride by. He loves his big brother more and more all the time.

We came home and later for dinner Garth grilled some steaks. They were delicious as usual. Dylan even had steak for dinner. That is a rarity. Jaydon got in on the grilling action today. He is becoming Daddy's little helper. Watching him, I have flashbacks to Dylan always following Garth around and wanting to do what his dad was doing. Following the yummy dinner, we had homemade peanut butter ice cream. Very tasty.

Enjoy the pics. We wish you were here to share these times with us. Till next time......

P.S. My brother made it to Alaska with the Alive Campaign team. We are so proud of their accomplishment and can't wait to see him sometime so he can relive some of his journey. They have touched many lives and taught us all to live beyond ourselves. Dylan said it best the morning they arrived at their destination - "I love my Buddo." We all love you Buddo. Good Job!!

Karate Kid

2008-07-24T19:37:00.005-05:00

On Tuesday we signed Dylan up for karate at Sunridge Karate. Sunridge Karate is a Christian based martial arts program. In order to progress through the belts you must not only learn the martial arts, but also memorize Bible verses.

He received his white belt tonight. In order to receive it, he had to do an act of courtesy. So today at the pool, he helped a family collect their toys so they could leave and when asked to do the same for us, he said "yes, mam" and gathered cheerfully. So he is now officially a white belt. He has also memorized his first verse -

Matthew 7:12 "So in everything, do to others as you would have them do to you."

P.S. We eat lots of popsicles around here...

New MX Gear

2008-07-19T22:28:00.006-05:00

For many this event is not worth blogging; however, I still have to share. I know the Granddad will enjoy seeing his grandson in new MX duds.

Today we went to a MX store called Chaparrel Racing because Dylan was in need of some new gear. It was the coolest place of its type we have ever been to. It literally had everything a BIKE rider could possibly need or want. In the past I have ordered basically everything online for Dylan and Garth, but today it was great to actually have them try things on to know exactly what style and size worked the best for them. Dylan walked away with a brand new get up.

First though I want to share a picture of my little MXer about 1 1/2 years ago:

This is Dylan today -

WOW!!! He is changing and getting so much bigger.

After our purchases, we had dinner at Jason's Deli (an Aldrich staple) and then found another MX track to try out soon.

It was a fun day with the boys!

P.S. Jaydon got in on the action too -

What cute boys we have!!

California Kid

2008-07-17T15:18:00.003-05:00

I just had to share these pictures of Dylan. The boys got haircuts today. He has been asking for a blue mohawk, so instead we settled on "spikey" hair with some red wash-out gel in it. He thinks it is cool. We may as well have fun while its summertime. Besides........ we're in Cali!!!

Contentment

2008-07-17T09:52:00.003-05:00

The "newness" of California is wearing off and I am really kind of ready to take residence back up in Texas - Huey Drive would be fine. I know I have friends there. Those to chat, laugh, and cry with. Those that love my husband and kids. Kiddos for Dylan and Jaydon to play with. I know exactly where Garth works and what he does. I can follow along in a conversation about his work because I know the people he works with and what they do also. I know my family can reach me or me get to them in 6 hours. I was COMFORTABLE.

Don't get me wrong, California is great. The terrain is beautiful. The weather is great. There are more than enough things to do... pools, playgrounds, etc. But, I'm not comfortable yet.

However with this rambling I do know that I am not to live in the past. We have be placed here at this appointed time by God for His reasons. I have to be content in that. I recently heard a sermon out of Matthew about Jesus healing the leper after coming down from the Mount. Basically the leper asks Jesus to heal him if it is His will. The leper fully believed Jesus could heal him, but was content (there's that word again) if He didn't because He knew Jesus' will for him was the most fulfilling way. I've read and heard this many times, but this time it hit me in a different way. I need to apply the leper's words to my life. "Lord, you have placed me here. For what reason I do not know. I know you could take me "home", but I want your will to prevail. Help me to be content where you have placed me and keep me looking forward to the things to come." I have been dwelling on these thoughts for this area of my life and my physical life. I hope that I can become so saturated with Jesus that I am content no matter where I am, who I know, or how I feel. I am such a work in progress.

Thanks for letting me share. I will share more pics and happenings from Cali soon. Tonight is "Aldrich Hang-out night". We are starting to take 2 nights a month where we get some one-on-one time with the boys. Tonight, Garth gets Dylan and I get Jaydon. Next time, we switch. I thought it would be a good idea to give them each some alone time where we can focus on them individually. I'll let you know how it went.

Till next time or next lesson learned......

Blasts from the Past

2008-07-08T18:21:00.004-05:00

I've got dinner started and Jaydon is still napping, so I thought I would take a moment on the computer.

Garth had a weekend of reunions.

Reunion #1

Once about 12 years ago there were two guys, Garth and Leon. They lived in Hawaii - Garth in the Coast Guard and Leon in the Marines. They met at church and were great friends while both stationed there. It is funny how things work, but now both families are stationed here at Camp Pendleton. The guys are no longer single. Leon is married with 4 children and of course, you know our family make-up. We spent the 4th here at the house with Leon and 3 of his kids. It was great to have a familiar face around.

Garth did the tradition grilling for the 4th. It was very tasty. I even made that dessert that looks like an American flag. It was fun to make and delicious. I would recommend it. So easy to make. We drove around to find some fireworks. People come out from everywhere around here for some fun. There were people all over. The fireworks were cool and Dylan even enjoyed them.

Reunion #2

This one goes way back to the high school days. Garth had friends of course that he was close to back in the "day". Well after about 15 years or so, we met Jared, his wife, and 14 month old son. What great people!! It was fun to watch Jared and Garth talk about old times, friends, and where life has led them now.

They live in San Diego, and treated us to a couple of hours at the beach. The boys had fun. Dylan loved the water. Suprisingly, Jaydon not so much. He much preferred playing the sand and making little places for puddles to form. After the beach, Jared led us on a quick driving tour of the city and then we headed for a great Mexican lunch. Back to the house and Jared became Dylan's new best friend. Those two skatedboared all over the place. Some pizza to end the day and back to Temecula we came.

Thanks to Jared and his family for hosting us for the day. We had a great time.

That is the weekend in a nutshell. Garth is back to work and I'm doing what I do best -- hang out with my boys. Tonight we are heading to the local duck pond. I can't wait to go feed the ducks "B". I just wish I had Old Blue to travel to the pond in.

Till next time...

We have Arrived!!

2008-07-01T15:31:00.009-05:00

This post is dedicated to my best bro-in-law ever -- Blake!! (I'll try to keep things updated a little better now that I have internet access.)

I am now officially blogging from Temecula, California. We have been here about 2 wks. We still have a few boxes to unpack and plenty of stuff to get in it's place, but we are getting more settled into our new life by the day. We are learning our way around a new town and enjoying having mountains and the beach so close. We drove down the coast on Saturday and went for a hike after church on Sunday. The boys are enjoying the walks to the parks and area stores. I am just trying to get back into some sort of routine and looking forward to time the "newness" wears off. Garth has checked into his new command and appears to be pleased with what he will be doing. Hopefully he will get on sometime and better explain his new position. In a nutshell, he is over a group called "Charlie Company." (Sounds so M*A*S*H like doesn't it.) He will be training about 50-60 "kids" to go to Iraq or wherever called to at this point. He will officially take over the company in mid-July. That gets you caught up on what's been going on since we arrived.

Now a bit about how we got out here:

The packers took our things away June 23. We enjoyed a fun 3 day weekend with our friends and neighbors on Huey drive. We spent out last few days at the Navy Lodge while Dylan completed Kinder and Garth checked out of the command. Dylan finished strong and we are proud to announce he is officially a 1st grader. It was very difficult to leave Corpus. Who would have thought. After tearful goodbyes, we had Corpus in our rearview mirror headed for Itasca.

It was a brief stop at my parents. We arrived and were surprised by a "Leaving Texas" party. We got to see some great friends and family before heading west. It was great to see everyone and hug their necks. One nights rest at my parents, and off to New Mexico.

This is where the fun begins. Let me explain that we are hauling our family (one that will be two in August, ughhhhh), tahoe (the big red dog), and pulling a trailer loaded down with motorcycles and other various things. We get to Amarrillo and the Expo decides it is not going to accelerate. So Garth basically nurses it and pray for it. Multiple stops on the side of the road and a few stops for Garth because he had to find a toliet a few choice times and we FINALLY made it to Albuquerque. The Expo went to the shop and a heafty bill later, it was up and running again. (Thanks Dad!!) We enjoyed time with Garth's family. We visited the zoo, Explora (children's museum), a fun center with bumper boats, go carts, and games, and a rousing game of croquet with Garth's cousin Claire and hubby Nick. It was great to see everyone and the boys enjoyed some time with the grandparents.

We then headed for Southfork,CO. Our home away from home. We met up with my parents, Blake and Nissy, and my grandparents. We shared a cabin together and had great times. The Expo once again returned to the shop for something else, but this time covered under warranty. (Thank God) And the guys of the group had to change a tire on it. This year's highlights of the trip were the boys riding dirtbikes and our hiking trips with Blake and Nissy. It is so strange to go there every year and do the same things, yet I already can't wait to get back. Dylan says he wishes it was his HOMEPLACE. I can't blame him. Our hope and prayer is that it will be his home at least for a few months in the summer at some point in the future. When out time was up it was time to say goodbye. Boy, that was a tough one. BUT, we got through it and are looking forward to the visits.

We continued on our journey. We got to see the Four Corners and stopped for a few hours at the Grand Canyon. We stayed the night in Kingman, AZ and made it to Temecula the next day.

It was a long haul. It was hard to be that unsettled for that long for everyone. But, it was a neat month. We are now looking forward to what God has for us here. Obviously something because I know His plan is perfect. It is so peaceful to rest in that. I have so much that I would love to share that I have learned even to this point, but I will save that for another time.

By the way, we really missed not seeing Buddo. The Alive Campaing is in Portland today. I can't believe that they are getting so close to their destination. I love reading their blog and keeping up with the happenings. It sounds like it has been quite an adventure. I can't wait to visit with him when it is over and hear about everything. Jaydon needs to see his Uncle. He sees random young guys with brown hair and says, "Hi, Bobbo!" I hope they don't think a 2 year old is calling them something else.

Ok -- that is long enough. Hope this finds everyone well.

Many blessings!

The Start of A Long Journey

2008-05-15T19:52:00.003-05:00

"Now to Him who is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, forever. Amen". Eph. 3:20-21

The Alive Campaing crew started their long journey to Alaska today. I so wish I could have been there for the send off to show my support. That is one of the hard things about being away from family. I am so used to being with my loved ones at the hospital, sporting events, awards nights, good times, and bad times. That is just what I know to do. I'm still adjusting to showing support from a distance.

Enough of my pity party. Buddo did call me today before they got really started in the ride. With tears flowing, I expressed how proud I was of him and the others and hugged him as hard as I could through the phone. And Lanissa called and gave me details of the big send off and sent pictures so I could see my little bro in biker shorts. (Not too shabby Buddo.) I am so excited to hear of all the good that is going to come from this journey. I pray they are safe and have the experience of a life time. Please keep them in your prayers as they still need funding and places to stay on their trip.

Thanks for allowing me my brag session. That is the great thing about a blog!!